Wang Zhiwen once said: "People who are good at giving gifts and know how to ask for help can easily change their fate; People who struggle alone and are stubborn may work hard all their lives to achieve nothing; People who are too strong have a bad fate. These words profoundly explain the root cause of the hard work in society but the difficulty of success.
Wang's insights reveal the fundamental problem of struggling in society without success – that is, the skillful handling of interpersonal relationships is essential for life and professional success.
He emphasized that people who know how to give gifts and ask for help are more likely to change their fortunes, while people who are completely dependent on themselves and overly attached can get into trouble in their fate.
It is true that everything in the world is delicately connected, and although everyone has their own path in life's journey, it is often difficult to succeed alone.
Our world is a microcosm of social connectedness, and everyone's life is connected to those around them.
In this environment, we must be well versed in the world and abandon self-righteousness. Otherwise, the lack of human sophistication and unwillingness to interact with others may lead to difficulties in our life.
"Competent" is considered by many to represent excellent interpersonal skills. Having this skill means knowing how to give gifts or ask for help when appropriate.
For those who insist on being too aggressive and unwilling to understand the rules of interpersonal communication, the road to success can be even more bumpy.
Giving small gifts when asking for assistance is not only a way to show gratitude, but also a common practice to maintain harmony in relationships.
In traditional culture, courtesy is seen as a form of courtesy and a form of respect for the labor of others. As Xunzi said, only those wise people who make good use of their surroundings and resources can stand out.
Therefore, we need to recognise that good interpersonal relationships are essential whenever and wherever they are, and that they are an effective way to achieve mutual benefit and mutual success.
As the saying goes: "Two fists are hard to beat four hands, and a good man can't stand up to many people." "It is true that the capacity of the individual is always limited. If we want to achieve ambitious goals and values, we need to rely on the support and support of others, build a strong network, and broaden our horizons and options.
Just like Mo Yan once said: "Asking for others is like swallowing a three-foot sword, relying on people is like going up to the Nine Heavens", in real life, we should not hesitate to put down our self-esteem and use appropriate means to seek necessary assistance.
However, not everyone can do this easily. People who are too rigid in their stereotypes often miss out on opportunities for development.
And those who think highly of themselves and refuse to ask for help and give gifts often find it difficult for them to succeed on their own due diligence due to their lack of relationships and limited resources.
Being good at leveraging external forces can not only promote personal growth and development, but also may bring more opportunities and resources. In some cases, success may depend heavily on your ability to socialize.
Therefore, learning how to give gifts and how to seek help from others is actually an art and resourcefulness. For everyone who is eager to turn over, abandoning a lofty attitude and actively making friends and helping others is the key to achieving self-breakthrough and improvement.
In the arena of interpersonal communication, we should understand the importance of mutual assistance and symbiosis. Gift-giving and asking for help is not just a means, but also an art of communication, a skill that can break down barriers and bring people closer together. In the tide of society, we can better understand each other, support each other, and create a better tomorrow.
Nowadays, the popularity of social networking has made people more virtual social, but real human relationships are still the core of our lives. Through face-to-face communication, a small gift may be able to convey deeper emotions than a thousand words. In the process of seeking help, it is not only to seek help, but also to build a bridge of trust and dependence between each other.
In fact, maintaining interpersonal relationships is not a one-time thing, and requires us to be sensitive and caring at all times. On the road to success, being kind to others, learning to understand, and being good at cooperation are all crucial qualities. We need to keep learning, adapt to changes in society, and constantly optimize our interpersonal skills to better adapt to the changing social environment.
As the old saying goes: "Actions are made in thought, and destruction is followed." "The way we behave determines how we behave in relationships. On the social stage, make good use of wisdom and scheming, not only to be sincere, but also to know how to be tactful, which is a high degree of social wisdom. Only on this basis can we better integrate into society and complement each other.
Therefore, gift-giving and asking for help are not only a way of communication between individuals, but also an expression of human nature and a bond with society. On the long road of life, understanding this art and being good at communicating and interacting with others will not only gain friendship and support, but also stand out in a highly competitive society. Let's work together to manage the garden of relationships with our hearts and create a rich, warm and understanding journey for ourselves.