In our village, there is a 45-year-old man named Long Lao Er, who is an old bachelor. Although he has a deposit of up to 500,000 yuan, he has been on a blind date 88 times, but unfortunately each time it has ended in failure. This is a heart-wrenching story, let's take a look at his blind date experience and the reasons behind it.
Long Lao Er is not a charismatic man, he is mediocre and does not have particularly outstanding talents. However, he has a sizable deposit. For some women, this is a big draw. So, he started his blind date journey.
On the first blind date, Long Lao Er dressed up carefully and went to meet with full expectations. However, the other party disdained him, just said a few words coldly and left. This disappointed him greatly, but he didn't give up.
He participated in 87 blind dates in a row, and each time he held out hope, but the result was the same. Some women only come for his savings and have no desire to communicate sincerely;Some women find him too ordinary and unattractive. Either way, he didn't meet anyone who was really willing to accept him.
Long Lao Er began to doubt his own worth, and he felt that he was destined to be alone for the rest of his life. Every blind date failure made him feel even more inferior and hopeless. He began to think about his own question, what caused him to fail again and again
He found that he relied too much on external conditions and neglected the importance of the inside. His savings, while making him financially carefree, do not represent his true value. He decided to change himself and get to know himself anew.
Long Lao Er began to pay attention to his hobbies and participate in various social activities to enrich his life. He learned a lot of new knowledge and improved his abilities. Through these efforts, he gradually regained his self-confidence.
At the same time, he also understood that blind dates were not the only way out. There are other ways for him to find his own happiness. He began to be actively involved in public welfare and helping those in need. Doing so will not only make his life more fulfilling, but also show his true worth.
After a period of change and hard work, Long Lao Er finally found his own happiness. He met a kind and talented woman, and the two admired each other and became the best companions for each other. Together, they build a loving family and face life's challenges and difficulties together.
The story of Long Lao Er tells us that blind date is not the only option, nor is it the only criterion for measuring a person's worth. It is important to find your inner strengths and make yourself better and attractive through hard work and change.
Although the story of Long Lao Er experienced 88 failed blind dates, he finally found his happiness. This story teaches us that whether it is on a blind date or otherwise, we should assert ourselves, strive to improve our intrinsic worth, and believe that happiness will come. Whether you are single or married, as long as you dare to change and have the courage to pursue, happiness will walk with you.