Happy life, don't embarrass yourself
Sometimes the difficulties in life do not come from external circumstances, but from our own thoughts. We often actively choose our troubles, not our troubles that choose us.
In life's journey, sadness and happiness, exhaustion and lightness are the norm. Instead of worrying, it's better to smile. No matter how difficult the current situation is, don't get along with yourself.
Someone once asked, "What does it feel like to be too attached to one thing?" One critically acclaimed answer was, "It's like there's a fire hidden in your heart, burning itself every day." ”
Writer Zhou Guoping once said: "Part of the wisdom of life is to understand what we can control and what we cannot." "After all, there will always be unsatisfactory things in life, and no matter how good a person is, there will be troubles.
For those things that cannot be changed, we can only accept them. On the other hand, if we keep clinging, we will only waste the present. Instead of being sad about "what you can't get", it is better to look down on everything and discover the small happiness in life.
Remember: good health, peace of family, and stability in life are the best moments in life. Instead of striving for perfection, it is better to have a clear conscience. Our life may not be brilliant enough, but it must be full of sunshine.
In the face of insurmountable obstacles, changes in the path of life often backfire, but we should learn to endure the pain and try to find other solutions. Sometimes, what seems like a difficult challenge is actually a reminder that we may be going in the wrong direction and need to take a turn.
The current is able to flow all the way to the ocean, not because it dares to brave the rapids, but because it knows how to avoid obstacles and follow the twists and turns of the road. Light illuminates the earth, not only because it can penetrate clouds, but also because it can be scattered in a tortuous way.
A writer once said, "When we reach the end of the road, it is not that the road has reached the end, but that we should turn the corner." "In life, there is no hurdle that cannot be overcome, only a turn that cannot be turned, don't compete with yourself, learn to reconcile with life.
Follow the natural trend, respond flexibly to changes, once you cross the psychological barrier, turn a corner, you will find that the road under your feet is actually connected.
Face: the heaviest and most useless thing In life, there are always some of us who pay too much attention to face, thinking that losing face is equivalent to losing dignity. So we are embarrassed to reject others for the sake of the so-called "face", and do something beyond our ability for the sake of our own "face".
However, such a "face" maintenance will only make us reap the consequences, and in the end we will only shoot ourselves in the foot. Writer Yishu once said: "Face is the most difficult thing for a person to let go, and it is the most useless thing."
The more you care about it, the heavier it becomes, the more difficult it will be. Truly successful people never take face too seriously. They know very well that face is only an illusory surface, and what really matters is strength.
Like Liu Bei who invited Zhuge Liang to visit the thatched house, and Goujian, the king of Yue, did not hesitate to lie down for revenge, these celebrities in history have won people's respect and recognition through their own strength.
Life is for oneself, not for others to see. Caring too much about what others think will only make you tired. Our greatest dignity is to put down our faces.
Only by putting down the face can we truly win the respect and recognition of others. That's when you realize how easy life can be.
Everyone is not perfect, but it is precisely because of these imperfections that we have a unique color. Accept your imperfections, face them with a forgiving heart, and you will find that this is where the sun shines in.
In life, many people push themselves into the abyss of anxiety and internal friction because they are too harsh on themselves. True maturity begins with accepting one's imperfections.
Don't be too your flaws, give yourself a little tolerance and make life easier.