My grandmother has two sons and a daughter, and when my grandfather was in his 60s, both uncles were married and had children to help take care of.
For the sake of fairness, my grandfather went to live at my uncle's house, and my grandmother went to my second uncle's house.
Grandpa and grandpa are diligent people, laundry, cooking, taking care of children, no problem at all.
It's a pity that such a day only lasted for more than a year, and my grandmother had a cerebral infarction, half of her body was not good, and she couldn't do housework and couldn't take care of the children.
So the second uncle began to complain in front of the uncle, intentionally or unintentionally, saying that he had lost money, and his grandmother was now in her 60s and could not act, and he and his aunt had to take care of both the children and the grandmother, which was very stressful.
The eldest uncle is a bold person, and after discussing with his grandfather and aunt, he asked his grandfather to go to the second uncle's house and took his grandmother back.
I stayed like this for fifteen years, and my mother would go to my uncle's house and my second uncle's house every month to visit my grandfather, and the family got along quite harmoniously.
One day, when my grandmother went to the toilet in the yard, she accidentally fell, and my uncle was not at home at that time, and my aunt also went to work.
After giving his grandmother a funeral, my uncle had no worries and went to Guangzhou to work to make money.
After three years of hard work, the uncle not only built a new house, but also married his cousin.
Especially in recent years, when my grandfather is getting older, he can't do anything, and his heart has become more and more unbalanced, arguing that he has suffered a loss.
So taking advantage of the fact that my uncle and aunt were not paying attention, I secretly sent my grandfather to my uncle's door and went to Guangdong to work.
My uncle had to settle my grandfather home, and after my mother learned about this, she was also very helpless about the second uncle's approach, but she had a lot of admiration and relief for the calmness of my uncle and aunt.
Every time my mother went to my uncle's house to see my grandfather, she always gave him 5800, asking my grandfather to buy vegetables for my aunt and give a red envelope to the children.
Grandpa happily took it every time, 5 years have passed in a blink of an eye, on grandpa's birthday, my mother went to the vegetable market early in the morning to buy vegetables and meat, went to my uncle's house and went straight to the kitchen.
The uncle and aunt are easy-going people, and the family happily cooks and chats at the same time, and the atmosphere is very harmonious.
Before eating, my mother put on a birthday hat for my grandfather, sang a birthday song for him, and then took out a 1,000 yuan red envelope and stuffed it into my grandfather's hand and said, "Dad, take the money to buy more vegetables for my sister-in-law, thanks to my sister-in-law's generosity over the years, you can have a stable life in your old age." ”
Then my mother turned to my aunt and said, "Sister-in-law, I don't know what to say, my second brother and sister-in-law are such a person, you have been wronged, I will often come over to help you serve our father in the future." ”
My mother choked up as she spoke, and when my sister-in-law saw this, she hurriedly said, "Look at you, just say it, what tears are shed, who made the sister-in-law the eldest daughter-in-law of this family, the eldest daughter-in-law has to look like the eldest daughter-in-law, otherwise what will our family be scattered, as long as our father is good, what is it for my sister-in-law to bear these grievances." ”
Sister-in-law's words made us particularly moved, before eating, my mother quietly called my sister-in-law back to the back room, took out a cloth bag and said, "Sister-in-law, my mother loved me when she was alive, and she was not willing to spend the pocket money I gave her, so she saved 15,000 and bought me a pair of gold bracelets, which I had planned to give to you for a long time, and I never had a chance." ”
In the past few years, I have seen what you have done to my father, you must keep this bracelet, and when my mother was alive, I had 30,000 yuan for me to save, saying that I was afraid that the family would have conflicts in the future, and it would be regarded as leaving a way back for the two of them. ”
Later, my mother died, you are willing to take your father home regardless of gains and losses, I feel very pleased as a daughter, I have not touched this money, and now I will give it to you. ”
Watching my mother spread out the cloth bag and push the gold bracelet and 30,000 yuan in cash in front of her, the eldest aunt hesitated for a moment and said, "If my mother gives it to you, you will take it, what is the matter with me, let your second sister-in-law know, maybe what will she say." ”
My mother said, "Sister-in-law, you don't care about this, you have been good to your father and mother over the years, I also see it in my eyes, you and my brother have paid the most for your father, I can't let you chill your heart, these things should belong to you." ”
Dad doesn't know about this, and the second sister-in-law doesn't know, you don't know about it, you can mention it to them, you can just know me, now that my father is getting older, I will often help you. ”
My mother's words made my aunt's eyes red on the spot, she said, "Little sister, my father's life is not easy, each of us will have an old day, you can think so, my sister-in-law is really happy, or the bracelet sister-in-law will take it back, you should take the money back, the eldest nephew will also start a family soon, the marriage house has not yet been settled, you need this money more than your sister-in-law." ”
Saying that, my aunt pushed the money to my mother, and my mother quickly shook her head and pushed it back and said, "One yard is one yard, I am a daughter, I can't help anything, I owe you enough, I can't take advantage of this cheapness, as long as our father is good, as long as you and my eldest brother are happy, I don't care." ”
My aunt was reluctant and insisted on stuffing the money into my mother, but my mother threw the money on the sofa in a hurry, turned around and ran out.
The eldest aunt chased after her to the balcony and couldn't stop shouting.
When the brothers and sisters on the side saw this scene, they probably guessed the reason, and looked at my mother step by step and turned back with a happy smile and bent over.
Now that so many years have passed, my grandfather is 93 years old and has always been at my uncle's house, and my mother has passed every once in a while.
We get along very well with my uncle's family, although my second uncle came back from Guangdong and often went to see my grandfather, but we and my second uncle's family are always separated by a layer of window paper, and we can't get close if we want to.