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Why did the Guangxi guy "eat slowly" get unanimous praise from netizens?
Recently, a little boy in Guangxi, who sparked a heated debate on the Internet, got up from the dining table and said to each old man one by one: "*Milk, you slow down, you slow down, Uncle Lu slow down, grandpa slow down, Sangong slow down, mother-in-law slow down, dad slow down, mom slow down, Aunt Lu slow down, four men slow down." In a word, there were unexpectedly more than 200,000 likes, and many people left messages. Why does the word "eat slowly" arouse so much interest and love among netizens?
The little boy in the film makes people feel close and warm. When eating, he "eats slowly" to all the old people, which is very touching, and also reminds them of the scene when they were young, eating with the elderly. Especially in today's day and age, everyone is busy, and it's hard to have the opportunity to sit down and eat with family members, let alone say hello to everyone. Such a simple and sincere greeting makes people feel a kind of warmth and family affection from China.
Guangxi young man "eat slowly", its custom.
The movements of the little boy are not an isolated phenomenon, but reflect a popular traditional custom in Guangxi. When young people in Guangxi leave the table after eating, they generally have to tell the old people to "eat slowly". This ceremony originated from the Chinese tradition of respecting the elderly, expressing the care and wishes of the younger generations for the elderly. In Guangxi, "playing mahjong" has become a commonplace, and everyone regards it as a habit. The behavior of the little boy has also been recognized by the majority of netizens, and many people have a deeper understanding and understanding of this traditional custom.
However, although this kind of greeting is common in Guangxi, people in other places, different places, people do not know about it. Some netizens were surprised by this and raised questions, feeling that it was too restrictive and cumbersome. In fact, the custom of greeting people in Guangxi is far more than that, and some people will have more cumbersome etiquette, such as greeting relatives and friends one by one, and pointing out everyone's name when eating. Some children find the rules binding and stressful. As a result, it has also aroused people's reflection on the "home" etiquette and customs.
Introspection: Let children enjoy more and be less constrained.
The behavior of a boy in Guangxi has aroused heated discussions and introspection among netizens, and has also caused many netizens to ponder: Will this custom bring adverse consequences to children? Parents do their best to educate their children about respect and traditions, but they should also give them more freedom and joy.
The form and content of the etiquette must be timely and appropriate. Too many children cannot be asked to comply, otherwise it will give them a kind of restraint. Rather, it is child-centred, child-centred and respectful of children's wishes and needs. When children are disgusted by these traditional ways of greeting, they can be given the opportunity to make their own decisions.
In today's era, the importance of family is becoming more and more prominent, and the transmission of family harmony and emotions is also getting more and more attention. At the same time, in modern society, family etiquette should also keep pace with the times. Whether it is a child or an adult, sincere greeting does not require too much etiquette, but heartfelt care and understanding. If you can create a warm and welcoming atmosphere in your home, so that everyone in the family feels warm, that is the best blessing.
On this basis, let's break through the limitations together, give children more joy and freedom, and make children truly happy.
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