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On February 12 this year, a **social ** quickly became popular, causing widespread discussion and likes. This ** was filmed in Guangxi, and the content is a little boy greeting his family at the dinner table, and his sentence "eat slowly" has become a well-deserved focus. **, the little boy dressed in red, stood up after eating, and said to each elder in turn to eat slowly. This simple ** sparked a resonance among netizens, and the number of likes quickly exceeded 200,000.
The reason why this ** has attracted so much attention is because it touches people's hearts. The little boy's demeanor and expression can be seen in his care and love for his family. He took the phrase "eat slowly" as a kind of etiquette and care, and put the happiness and health of his family first. This kind of filial piety and respect has moved and admired many netizens.
The customs reflected behind this incident have aroused heated discussions among the majority of netizens. Some have questioned whether the practice is too restrictive and cumbersome, and even feels that it is putting pressure on children. However, for the people of Guangxi, it is a traditional cultural practice.
In Guangxi, saying "eat slowly" to the elders after eating is an expression of goodwill and respect. This custom not only reflects respect for the elders, but also inherits the warmth and care of the family. Although this custom is gradually questioned and criticized by some people in modern society, for many Guangxi people, it is a traditional cultural value, a kind of identity and pride for them.
However, customs are subject to change over time. Some parents may be concerned that this practice will put too much stress and burden on their children. Therefore, while passing on this culture, the feelings and happiness of the child should also be taken into account. After all, it's the smiles and happiness of the children that matter.
This ** not only gave people a deeper understanding of Guangxi's customs, but also sparked many discussions about such customs. When celebrating the Chinese New Year, many families have a similar custom that requires children to greet their loved ones. For example, as soon as you enter the door, you should greet each elder, such as grandfather, grandmother, aunt, and aunt, call out the names of each relative in turn when eating, and say goodbye to the elders again after eating.
To some extent, these customs are a continuation and transmission of cultural traditions, but some people find them too cumbersome and impractical. For children, visiting relatives and friends, although a traditional act, does not necessarily bring joy. They may feel constrained and pressured to truly enjoy the joy of being with their loved ones.
As someone who has experienced this custom firsthand, I know it all too well. When I was a child, I didn't like to visit relatives and friends because I was always forced to say hello to many relatives and there were many rules to follow. Every time I go to a relative's house, I feel extremely depressed, as if I have to play a specific role.
Later, I gradually understood that these customs were not forced to do by anyone, but a continuation of tradition and culture. Each family has its own traditions and customs, which is also a way for families to communicate and pass on to each other. Although I still find this method a bit cumbersome and unnecessary, I also understand its importance and significance.
*This**, I think of my own childhood, and I also think of the children of today. As adults, we should think about how to give children more joy and freedom, instead of regulating and restricting them too much.
Children's happiness comes not only from etiquette and norms, but more importantly, from their true inner world and unique personality. We should give them the freedom to express and manifest themselves as they wish. Of course, this does not mean that we can indulge children, but rather provide positive guidance and nurturing while respecting them.
Finally, I want every family to understand that the happiness of their children is the most important thing. Whether it is in New Year's greetings or daily life, we should try to minimize formal constraints and rules, and give children more freedom and room for happiness. Let them be able to grow up in a warm and harmonious family environment and have a happy time that truly belongs to them.
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