Some truths are often told in the form of jokes, and those feelings that cannot be directly expressed will be expressed in other ways.
When a man says these three jokes, it means that he has deep feelings for you and is testing your attitude.
Zhang Keer, 24 years old, assistant: A friend I have known for a long time often tells me that if I can't get married in the future, he will reluctantly stay with me.
He and I were classmates in junior high school, and I was not good at words when I was studying, but he was a very outgoing person and would often talk to me.
It's nice to have someone take the initiative to communicate with me, which is something to be happy for an introvert like me.
So, I have always maintained a good relationship with him, and even after going to college in a different city, we never broke off contact.
Later, after graduating from college, I went to the same city by accident, and the contact became more frequent.
Because of my personality, I've never been in a relationship, which is one of the things I regret.
But what makes me curious is that he is a very good talker and very popular with the opposite sex, and he is not even in a relationship.
Once, when we talked about marriage and love, he said something to me: he said that with my introverted personality, it is not easy to get rid of singles, but if I can't get married in the future, he can consider being with me.
At that time, my heart fluctuated, and although it was a joke, it still made me nervous.
It was a long time before I heard from my former junior high school classmate that he had always liked me.
But I didn't know at all, he liked me for so long and hadn't told me, and he really couldn't bear it.
It turns out that some truths are hidden in jokes, and those are emotions that cannot be expressed directly.
Wang Yiyuan, 25 years old, employee of a state-owned enterprise: My boyfriend never said anything about marrying me, but he told me that he would always be by my side because he was not worried about letting me live alone.
My boyfriend and I were campus couples who stayed in a city to work after graduating from college.
We've been in a relationship for many years, but he never talked to me about getting married, and he didn't say anything about it.
He is a more introverted person, he doesn't know how to say love words, and he usually looks very serious.
Although he can't speak, he is a man of action and takes good care of me in my daily life.
He did all the housework at home, and he never let me into the kitchen, in his words, because he was afraid that I would order the kitchen.
But I know that he will take care of the housework because he loves me.
The stickiest thing he's ever said is that he's always there for me.
Then I asked him if he wanted to marry me all the time, but he smiled and said nothing.
I prefer such a bland companionship to sweet words, and it is stronger to give practical actions than to say love.
Although my boyfriend didn't say he wanted to marry me, and we didn't talk about it for the time being, I knew he would marry me in the future.
His actions gave me a sense of security, and even though he didn't say anything about marrying me, I believed we ended up together.
Zeng Keheng, 26 years old, secretary: My boyfriend gave me the bank card password, saying that he would hand it in in the future anyway, so it was better to let me keep it in advance.
My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for more than two years and now live together, so we can save some of our expenses.
We're both not too young, and it's time to talk about marriage, and I've been hinting at him for that.
I don't know if he's pretending to be stupid, or if he's really stupid, and he hasn't said anything about marrying me.
But he told me the password of the bank card and handed over the salary card, saying that he would have to pay it sooner or later, and it was better to take the initiative to hand it in as soon as possible.
I was a little embarrassed to hear him say this, but I still accepted the bank card, after all, I don't accept it.
His willingness to tell me the password is also a sign of trusting me, and he treats me as his own.
Although he did not directly state that he wanted to marry me, such behavior has shown that he has me in mind for his future.
It's just that he is embarrassed to say it directly, so he is so tactful, he is a typical "straight man".
Sometimes, true love does not need to be said directly, and his love can also be inferred from the behavior of the other person.
A man who truly recognizes you, trusts you, and regards you as a partner for the rest of his life will tell you his bank card password.
You just have to be patient and wait for some time, and what you want to hear, what you expect to happen, will come true.
Sometimes, a man's sincerity doesn't need to be walked out to understand, and some men are more introverted and can't say those love words.
But he will express it in his own way and make you feel his affection.
When a man says the above three sentences, the subtext is "he wants to marry you", there is no doubt about it.