On the broad stage of the workplace, dinner is an important social occasion.
In such an environment, every word and action of the leader may contain a profound meaning.
Especially when the leader toasts you at a dinner, your response not only shows respect for the leader, but also reflects your emotional intelligence and workplace wisdom.
Li Jiaxin is an ordinary middle manager. has been in the unit for many years, which was originally inconspicuous, but because of a seemingly ordinary dinner, he left a glorious mark in his career.
One evening, the company organized a small thank-you dinner. At the dinner table, senior leaders and employees staggered, laughed and laughed, and the atmosphere was harmonious.
Li Jiaxin sat in a less conspicuous position, he was not good at shining on such occasions, but he unexpectedly became the focus of the night.
After three rounds of drinking, a senior leader of the company, Mr. Zhang, picked up the wine glass and said to Li Jiaxin, who was sitting on the side: "Xiao Li, I toast you, you have performed very well in the project during this time." ”
In the face of this sudden praise, newcomers in the workplace may be nervous, and experienced people may take the opportunity to perform, but Li Jiaxin's response surprised everyone.
Mr. Zhang, you are too polite. It's my pleasure to have you compliment me like that. I would like to toast and thank you for your guidance. ”
Li Jiaxin stood up and responded with a smile.
His reply was polite and neither humble nor arrogant, expressing respect for the leader and skillfully diverting the embarrassment on the scene.
What is different is that Li Jiaxin did not say "I did it, you are free". Although this kind of remark seems to express his own modesty, it actually puts the leader in an awkward position.
Li Jiaxin's response reflects an attitude of leeway, which not only reflects the wisdom of the workplace, but also makes Mr. Zhang feel very face-saving in front of others.
Other colleagues present to witness this scene secretly cheered for Li Jiaxin's performance in their hearts.
Li Jiaxin's performance not only won the favor of Mr. Zhang, but also impressed other colleagues.
After the dinner, this incident suddenly became a beautiful talk within the company, and Li Jiaxin's reputation and status also rose.
Later, Li Jiaxin rose step by step and became an executive of the company because of his ability at work and wisdom in handling interpersonal relationships.
He often said: "In the workplace, respecting others is respecting yourself, and learning to speak is the key to winning respect and opportunities." ”
This story tells us that in the workplace, the level of emotional intelligence can often directly affect a person's career.
A simple gesture or a decent word can be a plus on your career path.
Learn to show your wisdom and demeanor at the right time, not only to succeed at work, but also to earn respect and trust in interpersonal interactions.
This is the workplace, a place where you need to keep learning and growing. Here, every choice can be about your future.
I hope this story can bring some inspiration to you who are struggling in the workplace, so that we can all become a professional person with both ability and high emotional intelligence.