Before, many netizens said that Xi Mengyao was attached to a wealthy family, but if you understand more, you will find that these statements are not true, she herself said that if there is no love, no wealthy family will marry, and now seeing that their husband and wife are so happy, those bad remarks have little credibility.
At the beginning, He Youjun directly withdrew from "The Strongest Brain" in order to pursue Xi Mengyao, because Xi Mengyao participated in the Lian Zong "Time Difference of Love", he was a little afraid that she would be robbed and a little jealous, so he quickly joined the show.
In the show, Xi Mengyao was taken blindfolded to a building. She arrives in a romantic room and meets a man wearing an Iron Man mask, who pulls out the item she had just chosen.
She suddenly understood that the man in the suit at the elevator just now, who asked her to choose the crown and shoes, was to let her choose what she wanted to wear, and this man was very attentive and respectful even when giving gifts.
Iron Man" invited Xi Mengyao to dance, behaved very gentlemanly throughout the whole process, and took care of Xi Mengyao's feelings, and Xi Mengyao also had a good impression of this very polite man.
But when the other party took off the mask, she was stunned, this person turned out to be He Youjun, who was 6 years younger than herself, her best friend's younger brother, and had just graduated from college.
Xi Mengyao said: "Don't be joking, let your sister take you back, okay?" ”
He Youjun said: "If I disappoint you, you can tell me directly".
Xi Mengyao felt a headache when she looked at He Youjun's very serious appearance, and she didn't understand why her best friend's brother suddenly came to participate in Lian Zong.
In fact, He Youjun was originally in another variety show at the time, and he performed very well, but when he heard that the girl he liked was about to date another man, he immediately quit the competition halfway and went to participate in the dating of Lianzong and Xi Mengyao.
He Youjun was very happy at the thought of being able to date Xi Mengyao. Although in Xi Mengyao's eyes, he was just the little brother of his best friend's family, but He Youjun, who was only 22 years old at the time, always wanted to take care of each other.
Before eating, He Youjun will take the initiative to help Xi Mengyao pull out the chair, and will take the initiative to find a topic to chat to make Xi Mengyao happy, and he wants to get rid of the label of "best friend's brother" on the first date.
He said: "I don't think it's good to stay in the feeling of her friend's brother forever, so I want to give her a different kind of mutual feeling." ”
So whenever Xi Mengyao mentioned her sister, He Youjun diverted the topic.
He Youjun also took a Polaroid to record the first date between the two, and childishly ** and praise made Xi Mengyao laugh.
No wonder his younger brother He Youjun was able to successfully pursue Xi Mengyao, it turned out that from the first date, he gave all his sincerity to each other with twelve points of sincerity.
In fact, Xi Mengyao is a very wise and emotionally intelligent person, even if she doesn't marry He Youjun, I feel that she should be a noble person in her life.
She has a lot to learn from us, and I personally think that she has 3 "good life cheats" with high emotional intelligence.
Clause. First, she is very good at elevating her own value.
30-year-old Xi Mengyao faced the pursuit of the rich second generation who was 6 years younger than herself, she did not fall in the middle, but refused to go on night dates many times.
He also expressed that he thought that the other party was not working, and when they met, they would ask: Are you changing girlfriends very quickly?
Her series of operations is to tell He Youjun: I see through your tricks, if you just want to play, then I am not interested. If you really want to chase me, you'll have to do what I ask.
This is to set the tone for the relationship between each other, not only can they occupy a high position when getting along, but also make He Youjun feel that Xi Mengyao may not necessarily look down on me, thus emphasizing his own value.
Clause. Second, when Xi Mengyao and He Youjun get along, you will find that her emotions are backward compatible.
In the show, He Youjun's posture of sleeping and holding her, as well as his body involuntarily leaning towards her, can be seen.
Do you think that a rich second generation like He Youjun can work all the time after marriage, and he is a person who wants to prove himself very much.
He can perform very well in the show, but in his work, he is definitely the same, Xi Mengyao just wants to use his strong core to balance these status advantages.
In life, she is more like He Youjun's mother to tolerate him, support him, and assist him in fulfilling his dreams.
Clause. 3. When she marries into a wealthy family, she is not marrying one person, but marrying a whole family. Xi Mengyao, who has held two babies for 3 years, can easily integrate into the family and consolidate the relationship with her high emotional intelligence.
In terms of work, she and He Youjun participated in variety shows together to strengthen each other's commercial value, and her mother-in-law's recognition of her was to let her go to MBA technology for further study.
She has high emotional intelligence, a strong heart, self-confidence and kindness, and a wise and transparent mind. Such a girl, even if she doesn't marry He Youjun, there will be other wealthy families waiting for her, but no, she herself is her own wealthy family.
In the life of ordinary girls, there are not so many opportunities to meet the top rich second generation. Therefore, Xi Mengyao's experience cannot be replicated, but those good traits in her can be learned.
These things can make us more confident, stronger, and wiser, and if we can do this, we will be more confident in dealing with life......