February** Dynamic Incentive Program
The power that a happy family can unleash is enough to withstand the hardships of life.
* The writer Leo Tolstoy once said:
Happy families are the same, but unhappy families are different. ”
The picture of a happy home is usually inseparable from the composition of such members: a peaceful mother, a firm father, and a grateful child.
The mother is emotionally peaceful, and blessings are born naturally.
Education experts have mentioned:
A loving mother is far better than many special teachers. ”
In the documentary "Amazing Mom", the image of a mother who is both emotionally peaceful and intelligent is presented.
She never denies her children lightly, but paves the way for her children to grow up with tolerance and understanding.
The mother, named Li Qi, is a corporate executive and has an 11-year-old son, Xiaoshuai.
Although Xiaoshuai's academic performance is mediocre, he is very intelligent, and he has become an influential blogger by self-taught editors, sometimes earning thousands of yuan a day.
In today's society, many parents pay too much attention to their children's academic performance, but Li Qi has taken a different approach.
She attaches great importance to cultivating children's comprehensive abilities and exploring more suitable growth paths for children.
On weekends, she takes her son on a bike ride, observes wild plants and teaches him how to cook.
Xiaoshuai aspires to become a ** blogger with an annual income of 10 million and pursues financial freedom.
Although Li Qi had reservations about his son's goal, he did not directly hit the child's self-confidence.
She adheres to the principle of not denying children, and communicates with children on an equal footing at the dinner table to stimulate his spirit of exploration.
Some mothers are too nervous about their children's education, pressing every step and striving for perfection, which is often counterproductive and suffocates the child.
Li Qi's patience and wisdom allowed Xiaoshuai to develop the right values as he grew up, and gradually realized the diversity and complexity of the world.
There's a good saying:
In the vast sea of life, a mother's love is like an island, providing a quiet haven for her children to escape the rough waves. ”
The emotional state of the mother has a profound impact on the family atmosphere.
A mother with a stable heart is able to give her child enough security.
On the contrary, it can cast a cloud over the whole family.
A Zhihu netizen shared that his mother is often unhappy, and small things can trigger negative emotions and have a pessimistic attitude towards things.
Her mantra is:
How can such a family have any benefits.
This emotion made the whole family feel tense.
Growing up in such an environment, she didn't want to go home even during the holidays, preferring to stay in a rental house and seek some peace.
The mother's mood has a huge impact on the family atmosphere.
In a warm family, the mother is often the soul of the family, and her stable emotions can bring harmony and tranquility to the family and gather more blessings.
A mother's patience and gentleness are indispensable nutrients for the healthy growth of children.
The father's principles are firm, and the family shows confidence.
In the TV series "Youth Pi", Lin Dawei, the father of high school student Lin Miaomiao, is an enlightened elder.
When Lin Miaomiao revealed the identity of a classmate's illegitimate daughter, Lin Dawei told her seriously:
We should not talk about other people's privacy behind our backs. ”
When Lin Miaomiao planned to alienate this classmate with the general trend, Lin Dawei patiently taught her daughter:
Even though this classmate used to laugh at you, she also helped you and stood up when you were being bullied. One must learn to be grateful and remember the kindness of others. Hatred is like a thorn in the eye, hurting oneself hurts others. ”
Faced with Lin Miaomiao's worries about being admitted to university, Lin Dawei comforted:
College is wonderful, but it's not the only way out. Spend your time learning the wisdom of the ancients and sages, even if you don't go to university, engaging in webcasting can be different. In this era of short-term flooding, if you can concentrate on reading, have discernment, and then pursue your dreams, because you have your own opinions, you will not blindly follow. ”
When the daughter asked nervously
Is it too late to start learning?
He replied firmly
It's never too late to start.
Lin Dawei is a principled father who respects his children's individuality and choices, rather than imposing his own will.
There's a good saying:
Father's love is like the sun shining through the clouds, shining warmly into the depths of your heart, and even in the harsh winter, you can feel the warmth of spring. ”
Recently, a father won praise for his warm speech at a parent-teacher conference online.
Although his son did not do well in his studies, he did not have any problems in the dark night of everyone's life, and the darker the night, the more beautiful the moon and stars became. There is nothing wrong with the dark night of good night, the darker the night, the more beautiful the moon and stars. Good night, as long as spring is still there, I will not mourn. Even if the night swallows everything, the sun can come back. --Wang Guozhen said that no matter what the grades, his love for his son remains the same.
No matter how well his son performs, he will be his strongest support.
He was able to identify the strengths in his son, such as being actively involved in school activities.
He believes that grades are not everything. A low score does not necessarily mean that your future ability will be low.
Life is a marathon, and he believes that his children will do their best in the future. "
This remark received warm applause from the parents present.
When a child is confused, father's love is like a bright beacon, guiding the way.
When a child is anxious, father's love nourishes the heart like a spring.
A father with firm principles is the child's solid support and greatest confidence.
The child is grateful, and the home is full of joy.
As the old saying goes: the grace of parents is as deep as the sea. ”
In the family, the gratitude of children can bring great comfort and satisfaction to parents.
In the program "Youth Talk", Tang Xiaowei, a first-year high school girl, stood on the rooftop and affectionately expressed her gratitude to her parents below.
Tang Xiaowei has lived in the mountains since she was a child, and her parents are farmers with only primary school education.
Before she was in the third grade, she had to walk two hours a day to attend classes at the village's only primary school.
To ease their daughter's hard work, her parents moved to the tallest building in town when she was in fourth grade.
Tang Xiaowei knows that her parents, as farmers, have done their best to create better living conditions for her.
Growing up, her parents did everything they could to meet her needs.
She has the same happiness and beauty as her peers.
Whether learning to dance, sing, or play the guitar, her parents always fully supported her choice. What she is most grateful for is that her parents sent her to learn to host.
This decision transformed her from an introverted country kid into a confident girl who dared to stand on stage and participate in speech contests.
The education and guidance of her parents made Tang Xiaowei a self-reliant and grateful girl.
She shouted loudly to her parents and classmates below
I have never been a child of a poor family, because of the love of my parents, I am the richest person in the world. ”
She hopes that her parents will not always leave the best things to her, but should care more about themselves.
The parents at the bottom had already burst into tears when they heard their daughter's heartfelt words, but the joy and pride in their eyes were so strong.
There's a good saying:
Live with gratitude, make yourself happy, and make others happy! ”
A child who is always grateful is more likely to express gratitude for his family's efforts and cherish his family's efforts more.
A child who knows how to be grateful will fill the family with joy.
There is such a saying:
The joy of family life is the best medicine against bad habits. ”
A home full of joy often comes from the careful management of each family member.
The mother is emotionally peaceful, and the family is harmonious and loving;
The father's principles are firm, and the family is full of confidence;
The child is grateful, and the home is filled with joy.
Home and everything is prosperous, may we all be able to spend a good time with our families in the years to come, happy and happy.
May every child be born to the sun, take deep roots, and thrive.