This week, I led the team to do a year-end review, and when it comes to private domain operations, my attitude is: as long as you operate with an altruistic mentality, you don't have to care about those negative comments.
This is actually a compulsory course for adults, just learn to sing your own drama in life, as long as you don't tear down other people's stages, I am in charge of my stage.
The main position of private domain operation is our circle of friends, followed by the community, **number, **these, many people also want to be a personal brand, but as soon as they send a circle of friends, they are worried, worried that they will post too often, worry about their content encountering bad comments, etc.
In the time of my own creation, I encountered a lot of bad comments, and I had to chat and complain privately to show my sense of existence.
But according to the logic of private domain operation, what is different from my values and cannot be transformed is not the target user at all, and I naturally shouldn't care about your evaluation, your sense of existence, in my place, but I am lonely.
From the moment we enter the kindergarten, we should realize that we are not the center of the world, and do not dismantle other people's platforms at will.
The better people they live, the more they know how to put their energy in the right place.
I remember when I was in middle school, I felt that time passed so slowly in some disgusting classes, and after graduating from college, I only had the word "fast" for my feelings about time, and the fourth year after the epidemic was over.
As time passes, we should be kind to ourselves, pay more attention to ourselves, and not pay too much attention to the wind and grass outside, chase the so-called hot spots, or worry about the affairs of others, among which catering to others is the most likely to lose ourselves.
Loving others is like raising flowers, loving oneself should be like this, about the concept of love, I told many students, don't fall in love, like butterflies, not to chase, but to plant flowers, flowers and butterflies come from the flowers.
When a person has his own goals and directions, and when he tries to do his own thing, he is the most attractive, and the most attractive moment for most people is actually in the workplace.
Be brave, many of the so-called rules, you don't need to cater to or follow, just immerse yourself in being yourself.
But you should also be careful not to elevate yourself by slandering others.
Everyone in the workplace should pay attention to personal brand and amplify their own influence
I am Sun Ling, a number of famous enterprises in the campus business, long-term focus on the study of college students' group behavior, welcome to leave a message, private message exchange.