Qian ZhongshuMr. debunked the true face of the person who borrowed money and did not repay it with a concise and sharp sentence: "Before borrowing money, he was a friend, after borrowing money, he was an uncle, and after repaying the money, he was a benefactor." "Borrowing money is a kind of human thing, but if you don't repay the money after borrowing, or even express dissatisfaction with the borrower, such a character is worrying, and you should try to stay away.
Rumors are like a sharp sword that can ruin a person's reputation and reputation. In the book "The Rope",MaupassantIt vividly depicts the horrors of the spread of rumors. How an innocent man is framed as a thief because of a momentary misunderstanding, how he is stigmatized and ultimately destroyed. We must be vigilant against the dangers of rumors and avoid becoming scapegoats for rumors.
No matter what undesirable things happen, complaining to others will not bring real comfort, but may lead to indifference and disgust. A short story in "Distress"., Iona constantly tells his guests about his heartache, but all he gets is perfunctory and indifference. People tend to only care about their own affairs and ignore the suffering of others. Therefore, for the pain in the heart, you should choose to heal silently and face it strongly.
Some people seem honest and harmless on the surface, but behind the scenes they are despicable and vicious. Although these people will not be malicious to you directly, they will secretly retaliate against you once their interests are violated. Socializing with such people can easily be taken advantage of, hurt, or even ruin one's life. In ".Siege",Fang Hongjimet such a person, his "good friend" Yang Shiliang is hereFang HongjiWhen he needed help the most, he was given a fatal thrust. Beware of those who are honest on the surface, and be vigilant.
As a leader, one should possess the qualities of fairness and good intentions. Only in this way can we truly distinguish between right and wrong, handle affairs fairly, and show goodwill to employees. The quality of the leader directly affects the atmosphere and direction of the whole team. In ".SiegeXu Zhimo's criticism of the leaders of the Writers' Association is a warning and reminder of the quality of leaders.
Any great achievement is not easy, and behind it is a huge sacrifice and hard work. In ".Siege",Fang HongjiGave up on their ownLiteratureDreaming of choosing a stable job and family is a huge sacrifice. For the sake of reality, for the sake of life, we often need to make some choices against our will. This gives us an idea of the hard work and sacrifice behind great achievements.
Qian ZhongshuThe gentleman referred to a kind of ancient literati realm: ".See Nanshan leisurelyIt means state of mindTranquility, the pursuit of inner peace andTranquility。In the midst of the hustle and bustle of the world, we should learn to keep our hearts in placeTranquility, see through the glitz of the world, and live life easily and freely. The pursuit of this state of mind makes us more calm and calm, more wise and wise.
These seven sentences are short and profoundHumanityThe ugliness and predicament of life is a revelation and wake-up call to our lives. No matter what challenges and difficulties we face, we can get some wisdom and strength from them.