One day, I saw a screenshot of a conversation online about a couple who got into an argument over a conflict between work and life. This conversation subverts the impression that a guy usually says after a fight, "Then let's separate," and the guy says, "No." Let's take our time. This got me to that point in an instant.
In love, quarrels, contradictions, misunderstandings and estrangements are unavoidable problems. Some couples become closer after a quarrel, while others are incompatible and eventually part ways. Why is there such a difference? Perhaps when it was time to work together to solve the problem, they chose to go toe-to-toe; When we should face it together, we only think about solving each other. It's like being on a leaky boat, and when faced with a problem, some choose to cooperate in scooping water, while others choose to abandon the other.
When I think back to my feelings, I've been in this situation countless times. In the beginning, every time I quarreled, he would reassure me in time. But slowly, understanding turns to questioning, relief turns to perfunctory, and companionship turns to impatience. I wanted to communicate with him and ask him why he didn't reply to messages often and why he didn't say hello when he came home, but every time I opened my mouth, he thought I was looking for something unhappy, so he proposed to break up.
Even your closest loved ones can't shelter you from the wind and rain for a long time. Your emotions, your scars, your cries in the middle of the night, seem to be all yours alone. I learned from this relationship that it is the fate of most people not to be firmly chosen. We are not very special, and we have experienced too many twists and turns and fickleness to understand better how lucky those who are firmly chosen are.
Sometimes, we need someone who can respond to us in a timely manner, someone who is willing to comfort us, someone who does not leave us because of our weaknesses. This sincere and pure language seems to be able to melt a hard heart. Seeing others happy always brings tears to people's eyes.
There is such a boyfriend, and the girl is frustrated by her work and feels that she is terrible. However, her boyfriend said to her, "Work isn't everything, and that doesn't stop me from loving you." He also said, "Although you are often mourned, you are true." I love people with brilliant souls. Such words make girls feel understood and cherished. This is the power of love, tolerance and understanding, which makes each other stronger together.
In love, we need to learn to tolerate each other, know how to understand each other's imperfections, and face the difficulties in life together. And when we meet someone who can tolerate us, understand us, and is willing to grow with us, that touch and happiness will be the biggest surprise in our lives.