Generally, families work hard to bring up their children and don't have much savings, and the parents are getting older and older, and there is a lot of expenses if they are sick! It's not that parents don't love their children, but they are afraid that if you stay for a long time, you will lie flat and lose your fighting spirit, and your future life will become a problem! Let's say that you can't fall in love with the endless money at home, just don't break the law and discipline! When people grow up, they have to be independent, and they don't have the ability to be independent, so how can they do it, and now college students don't clean up their homes, and they think about beautiful things at home all day long. Nest at home and don't go out. Can parents not be anxious? If you don't go to work, you won't have money, and if you don't have money, it will become a burden. People who have this kind of heinous thinking if they don't go to work are all poor, and if the thinking of the poor does not change, they will not be able to complete the class leap.
I remember a friend chatting with me and telling me: When my parents take care of their children at work, I pay for tuition and living expenses, and my parents say that they will give some money to go to work. Later, I couldn't take them to eat and drink them, and my parents said that they would take a child to do housework if they didn't go to work all day. Later, I took the children to do housework and found an hourly job in a restaurant, and my parents said that what are you doing with that money [laughing and crying] I can't go back now if I don't go back, what do you like? Ask you what you are doing now, "I know how to do my own business, you don't care, take care of yourself."
Parents are anxious, fearful, ......I'm afraid that if you don't go to work, you'll gnaw at the old, you'll be eliminated by society, you'll have no money to treat you when you're sick, you'll have no money to treat them, you'll not be able to support them in the future, in short, you're afraid that you'll be burdened with them. If you have billions, just throw them three or five billion, and they won't care if you go to work or not. In short, the heart is poor, anxious, panicked, seriously insecure, and poor.
At one of the events, a lady told me about her: I had been a manager in a supermarket for more than a year, and although the salary was high, it was very stressful. The whole supermarket is under my control. The boss often comes to check, as long as he is in a bad mood, the supermarket business is not good, he will scold, I have been scolded by him several times before. I thought about quitting, but I didn't dare to quit casually. Because as soon as I quit my job, I lost a high-paying job. And now this situation is not easy to find a job at all, it is difficult to find employment! When parents retire, as children, they have the obligation to support their parents. Once I lose my job, life will be so difficult, how can I explain it to my parents? I have also been tolerating the bad temper of the boss, thinking to myself: "I want to open a little, the boss is angry because he is in a bad mood, and he is angry with himself, after all, he is angry and hurts his body!" If I'm in a bad mood, I can go for a walk in the park, listen to **, eat delicious food with my boyfriend, etc." I've become accustomed to this job. Life is short, live every day well, be content and happy!
Parents are sometimes very conflicted, when you don't work, you are afraid that you will be eliminated by society, afraid that you will not be able to support yourself, and afraid that you will not be self-reliant when you have no support. After you go out to work, you feel sorry for whether you are tired or wronged. Because the times are different, the pressure is different, the work content is different, and the generation gap comes out, in their eyes, they just need to have a job, they don't need to consider the importance of love consumption, mortgage, and career depreciation brought about by the content of the job.
Children who do not go to work do not live with their parents, and if they live together and do not go to work, it is of course heinous to eat and die every day, unless full-time children provide emotional value to their parents. Because people are also animals, and they are also the law of the jungle, your parents let you go to work just so that you can survive without your father, and also so that you can integrate into society. If the child is married, lives with his partner, and the partner earns a lot of money, will the parents not be anxious? If the child has 100,000 in savings, the parents will not say anything until the money is spent. If the child does all the housework and cooks, parents from average families will be anxious, but parents with good family backgrounds will not necessarily be anxious. It is recommended to find a job by yourself, and if you have tens of thousands of deposits, you can open a store.