Falling in love, getting married, and having offspring, these things that were originally normal for people have now become a problem for many young people. With the progress of the times, these things that were originally natural have become more and more difficult.
Many young people have not been seriously in a relationship by the time they reach their thirties, let alone college students who are busy with their studies.
Japan has reportedly entered an unimaginably sexually free society. According to a survey report by the National Institute of Social Security and Population Research of Japan, 36% of men and 39% of women have no sexual experience by the age of 34, which is in stark contrast to the most culturally developed Japan that people imagine.
Although China has not yet reached the level of Japanese society, some first-tier cities are already showing this trend. Many people are obsessed with the virtual world, revering two-dimensional culture and believing it to be an irreversible future trend that treats real life as secondary. However, those who are truly successful and enjoy a happy life deserve to succeed in real life and have the most authentic and enriching life experience. Therefore, I have always encouraged young people to fall in love seriously, taste the sweetness of love, and feel the purest scenery on the road of life.
Some people use their busy schedules as an excuse to think they don't have time to fall in love, get married, or have children. However, judging from the time span of a person's life and the scope of society as a whole, the work of the vast majority of people is not as important as they think, let alone comparable to life. Things in the world, if Zhang San didn't do it, there would naturally be Li Si to replace it, or even do it better. However, each person's specific life is unique and cannot be replaced, nor can it be made up for later. Some people think that there will be plenty of time in the future, but in reality there will never be a chance.
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Although I don't believe in any religion, I am in awe of the Divine. Since God divides man into man and woman, and allows each other to know and love each other, this is the avenue of the universe and the most wonderful thing in the world. In the same way, marriage and having children are the source of God-given rights and happiness for human beings. From falling in love to getting married to raising offspring is determined by the natural nature of human beings.
Some people are only willing to enjoy the pleasure of love, but they are not willing to take on the responsibility of marriage and see it as a burden. However, although love is beautiful, it is not enough to support the whole life, and only marriage can enjoy the happiness that love cannot achieve. Many old couples with golden and even diamond weddings have proved this, and while admiring their health and longevity, we should also recognize that marriage is one of the important reasons for their longevity.