People who just talk but don't do it will never solve the problem.
After being cheated on, they will only secretly wipe their tears alone.
A woman who goes around looking for someone to confide in and say how painful she is, but who doesn't act at all, will never be able to get rid of an extramarital affair.
Most men cheat, and the reason why they refuse to break up with the mistress is that the pressure from their wives is not enough, and you give him the opportunity to continue cheating.
But if you are a little more popular, if the man does not hurry up to solve the problem of the mistress, he will face a great price.
There are few cheating men who will have to take these risks for the sake of a third party.
This is the reality, not alarmist, wives should think clearly, what exactly did you do after being cheated on, or did you do it?
The original partner who came to Su Yue to solve the extramarital affair last year came to him again this year.
It's not that the advice given last year didn't work, or that her husband cheated on her for the second time.
It's this original partner, in fact, he came to find it and cried, but he didn't make up his mind to solve the extramarital affair.
The characteristic of this original match is that she usually lives as usual, and she doesn't say that no one knows that her husband is cheating.
But in the dead of night, when her husband went to find the mistress, she began to have an emotional breakdown.
Then he kept talking to someone, saying that he couldn't stand it anymore and wanted to solve the extramarital affair.
Su Yue also stayed up late to help her analyze for a few hours, and gave some suggestions for her to do it first.
But this original partner told Su Yue during the day the next day that she felt that she couldn't do those suggestions, her husband went home and apologized to her, saying that she shouldn't abandon her to find Xiaosan, she didn't feel the need to be so cruel to her husband.
To put it simply, I feel uncomfortable at night and want to settle an extramarital affair.
During the day, it was not so uncomfortable, so I just gave up and waited for the cheating man to repent by himself.
In this case, Su Yue will not persuade a word of extramarital affairs.
Because there is too much contact, this is not persuaded, and she will not listen to persuasion.
They will only act a little if they are forced to do it by a cheating man and have to settle the extramarital affair.
Just like this original partner, she didn't do anything last year, but occasionally she was in a bad mood and came to talk to Su Yue.
Although Su Yue knew that she would not solve the extramarital affair, she would also give her some comfort.
This time she seems to have made up her mind, because her husband is getting worse and worse.
went directly to the junior on the day of the New Year, and also met the parents of the junior child.
It is obvious that this man has the idea of divorce and marrying a mistress, and the original partner can't maintain the apparent peace by herself.
She is not really solving the extramarital affair, and she may be abandoned as the original partner.
In fact, this original situation is not difficult to solve at all.
The original partner and the cheating man have been married for more than ten years, and the husband and wife have a lot of property, and the wife is not a housewife.
Although the income is not high, it can also support itself and children, so it is equipped with the ability to divorce.
Compared with the original wife, the cheating man was actually more afraid of divorce before.
The reason why he began to plan a divorce later was not that the factors he was afraid of disappeared.
It's because of the attitude of the wives that the cheating man slowly ignores it.
Wives look very coaxing, they can't do without the appearance of cheating men, and they will slowly form a kind of thinking for cheating men.
is that the original wife is not as good as the cheating man, so the original wife has to hold on to the cheating man.
The wives are easy to coax, but the mistress is not good, and the cheating man has to coax the mistress more to meet the conditions of the mistress.
The cheating man is afraid of losing the mistress, so he will have the idea of divorce.
So what this original wife needs to do is to put the gains and losses in front of the cheating man.
Wives have to collect evidence of the man's cheating and find a lawyer to write a divorce agreement.
Ask for three or seven points of property, and there is a threat to the cheating man.
If the cheating man does not agree to the division of property, then the ** man cheats.
Most men are not afraid, but they feel that their wives cannot do it.
Because of the previous performance of the wives, they looked like they would not do anything other than to be sad and find someone to complain about, taking care of face and years of relationship.
looks like a submissive man, who does a cheating man bully if he doesn't bully you?
This is a very realistic thing, wives solve extramarital affairs, as long as they can be ruthless, there is a ninety percent chance that they can be solved neatly.
In the end, Su Yue wanted to say, if you can't solve the extramarital affair you encountered.
It's not that the cheating man loves the mistress so much, and how the mistress has the means.
Most likely, you are not strong-willed, and you will not be able to persist in resolving the extramarital affair at all.
You can think for yourself if you always say you want to do it, but never do it.
At the beginning, you threaten the cheating man, saying what you want to do to him, and the cheating man will be afraid and coax you.
But in the back, the cheating man doesn't care about you at all, and he will taunt you in turn.
It's not that he's changed, it's that the deterrent power you give him is getting less and less.
If you don't do anything, you just play lip service, you will only be sad alone, and you will never be able to solve the extramarital affair.
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