Controversy Project
In ancient times, the emphasis on "the right door", refers to the family background of both parties, the growth environment, etc., all need to be "matched", if the door is not the right household, there may also be "resentment", and put it in modern society, the same is very applicable, if the two sides do not agree with each other, even if they are forcibly matched, it is just a "bamboo basket for water".With the rapid development of the times, people's thoughts and concepts have also changed a lot, and they also have clearer ideas about marriageis no longer "blind marriage and dumb marriage" as before, but chooses a more suitable other halfand expect better results.
Especially the other half who came from the student days, the relationship between the two will be more pure, but when you enter the job, your mentality will change more or lessEspecially the "circle" is different, whether it can go to the end will also become an "unknown"!
At the college level, many students are eager to have a "sweet" relationship, but everyone's situation is different, and the concept of mate selection is also differentThe other half you meet is also very different.
A master's student asks a question onlineI am a 985 bachelor's and master's degree, and my education and job are very good, but my girlfriend is only a college degreeShould I marry her?
It stands to reason that 985 bachelor's and master's degree students and junior college students' academic qualifications are not equal, and there is nothing to hesitate about, but looking at the boys' expressions, they find that things are not simpleThe two have been in love for 7 years, and the girl's appearance is about 8 points, while the boy's appearance is only about 6 pointsThe two have known and fallen in love since college, and the girl is a few years younger than the boy.
After graduating, the boy went to Shanghai, and the girl followed, and then went to Beijing and Shenzhen, and later the two chose to settle in ShenzhenHowever, compared to the stable jobs of boys, girls are more likely to be in more mobile jobs, such as sales, pastry chefs, luxury tellers, etc., salaries are also unstable.
In addition, the girl has a younger brother, and the boy has a younger sister, and the family conditions of the two sides are similarHowever, boys think that girls do not have "self-discipline" and do not know how to improve their academic qualifications, Even if he urges himself, the other party can't persevere, although the girl provides herself with a high emotional value,But the boy couldn't help but complain, "My girlfriend's education is too low and I want to break up."
It's just that the complaints of 985 masters have exposed the hypocrisy of highly educated people！Netizens also bluntly said: In 7 years, you have been thinking about somethingDon't you know that the other party is a junior college when you are together? Don't use your low education as an excuse!
Some netizens said:It's quite fresh and refined to say "climbing high branches", but it's a pity that no one is "stupid and sweet"! Indeed, a girl's appearance is not low, if she said something inappropriate a few years ago, it must be easy to find someone stronger than a boyBut delaying other people's youth, and licking their faces and saying "academic qualifications don't match", it's just not too outrageous!
What's more,Girls don't suddenly become junior colleges, don't make excuses for your "negative man" behavior! In fact, from the student stage to the work stage, a lot of time and youth are spent on the same person, and the result is either to get married and start a family, or to break up and say goodbye, which can also be described as two extremes.
In the author's opinionA high degree of education is not equal to a "sense of superiority", and academic qualifications are not so important, when the other party can provide enough emotional value for themselves, and the three views are consistent and highly consistent, it is also a good thing to be togetherAnd vice versa, and when the boy asks, he must have already concluded in his heart, but it's just a trick to deceive himself!
As the old saying goes, "The circle is different, don't melt hard"., even if it is forced, it may not be satisfactory, but knowing that the other half's education and ability are not as good as their own, and they still want to be together, they must also take into account the deeper gap behind their academic qualificationsAnd not "three minutes of heat", that would also hurt both sides.
College students receiving a higher quality education should have the ability to distinguish between right and wrong, rather than dividing people into "three, six, nine and so on" according to their academic qualificationsAfter all, the level of education cannot represent all, if the three views do not match, it is a more important problem.
Moreover, college students also need to look at the essence of the problem through the appearance, marriage is not "looking for a job", there are not so many rules and regulationsWhether it is age or education, etc., it is just an "additional condition", if the other party meets the better, it doesn't matter if it doesn't meet, after all, it is not easy to find the "eye match".
"Interesting souls are one in a thousand",It is also a very simple truth, and there is no need for highly educated people to be pretentious there, after all, the so-called academic qualifications are just paper with a higher "gold content".If the appearance, height and three views do not match, then no matter how high the education is, it is of little significance.
Write at the end"Men are afraid of entering the wrong industry, women are afraid of marrying the wrong man", the truth is also very profound, college students should keep their eyes open, so as not to "trust non-people".Moreover, college students also need to have a stronger sense of professionalism, self-reliance, and less dependence on others, and naturally meet better people, and not "don't hit the south wall and don't look back"!
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