In the second half of my life, this is what I can rely ona thing, not a husband.
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The appearance of marriage is often not only because of derailment and betrayal, but also because of deep exhaustion and helplessness. In the second half of life, marriage is not everything, and the husband is not the closest person.
For example, the locket and her husband, although they have been holding hands on campus for many years and seem to be romantic and happy, in the heart of the box, this has become a sarcasm and a joke.
Since having a second child, coupled with the fatigue of confinement, taking care of the child day and night has been reversed, and her body has been seriously deficient. After the age of 40, her physical condition deteriorated, and the medicine bottle became her frequent customer.
In the middle of the night just before May Day, she suddenly had a fever and her forehead was hot. She woke up her husband, but the sleepy-eyed husband only asked her to apply a cold towel and said that he would wait until dawn.
These all made the locket feel extremely tired and helpless.
The locket looked at the 38 shown on the thermometer7. Headache, fatigue, no longer have the strength to argue with her husband. She wrung a wet towel and put it on her forehead, feeling hot, so she turned on the humidifier.
However, the next morning, Xiao Box, still having an unbearable headache, and looking at her husband, who was still asleep, she decided to call her neighboring brother. About thirty minutes later, her brother drove her to the hospital and brought her mother to cook for the children.
When the younger brother and mother entered the house, the husband heard the movement and got out of bed. The younger brother couldn't help but say a few words to her husband, and then took the locket to the hospital, while the mother went straight into the kitchen to make breakfast for the children.
During the examination at the hospital, the doctor asked my brother to go to the hospital. The box then called ** to her husband and asked him to pack up some daily necessities and clothes.
Children, be kind to yourself, the body is the most important, don't force yourself too much. It turned out that the mother had long known that Xiao Bo was not only taking two children, but also going out to deliver food to subsidize the family.
Hearing his mother's words, the locket agreed repeatedly. However, after being hospitalized for three days, Xiao Box was disappointed to find that her husband did not come to visit her once, and he did not even take the initiative to call, but every time Xiao Box took the initiative to ask about the child's situation.
I used to think that marrying love was the greatest happiness in life, but I didn't expect it to be close to half a hundred, only to find that the so-called "love" is just a title. Although she has shared a bed with her husband for many years, Xiao Box's heart is always blocked.
Thinking of the things in her mother's house, Xiao Box, who was lying on the hospital bed, couldn't help but recall the bits and pieces with her husband, and her thoughts couldn't calm down for a long time. It was a sunny afternoon, and the younger brother of the box had just picked up the car, who knew that the novice would inevitably bump and bump on the road, and accidentally scratch someone else's car.
The other party did not give up, at this time, the younger brother remembered that his brother-in-law had been in the traffic police brigade before, and there were acquaintances who were good to talk to, at least he would not suffer. Both sides are on the road and are responsible for each other's scratches.
It's just that the younger brother is a novice, and people put the blame on him. Upon learning of this, Xiao Box immediately asked his younger brother to call her husband directly and asked him to come forward to make a settlement. After all, it's just a small bruise, and there is no need to go through insurance, otherwise the premium will be more expensive next year.
In the evening, the box comes home and asks her husband about the resolution of her brother's affairs, but he tells her that he is no longer in charge of the area and therefore cannot help. Xiao Bo then called ** to inquire about his brother's situation, and learned that his brother paid some money, and all of them were blamed for the bruises.
Later, when she returned to her parents' house, her brother-in-law inadvertently revealed that her husband deliberately did not help, and even asked acquaintances to help, so that her younger brother could only suffer. The younger brother-in-law also said: "What's so great about him, isn't it that he has been promoted in the system, what is the use of us outsiders." ”
When Xiao Bo heard these words, he felt very uncomfortable, and when he returned home, he did not talk to his husband and did not show a good face. Lying on the hospital bed, Xiao Box, felt that she was stupid, her husband obviously did not regard her as a close person, but she loved him as much as her life, and left him all the delicious food, and even knew that he liked to eat fish, and often changed the way to make it for him.
3.When the box was discharged from the hospital, she took a taxi home alone. Her husband told her that he was going to stay at home to cook and take care of the children, and that his brother couldn't be disturbed due to his busy schedule, so the box decided to go home alone.
When she got home, she found her husband's second brother coming, and he said that he missed the children to come and see them. The locket was a little surprised, because since she started working, the second brother had never seen them in the future, and ** rarely played.
During the meal, the second brother asked her husband if he had been promoted recently, saying that he could not earn as much money as his brother and could only earn a living wage.
Then, he mentioned that he had been talking to his girlfriend for more than three years and was ready to get married. The husband was happy about this and praised his girlfriend as a good girl.
Xiao Box, who was serving rice in the kitchen, suddenly heard the second brother whispering. He said that the woman's family asked to buy a house, and he was currently short of 100,000 yuan in savings, and his parents did not have much money, so he wanted to ask Xiao Boxie if he could support it.
After hearing this, Xiao Bo walked out of the kitchen, but the second brother immediately changed the topic and asked Xiao Bo to eat more and pay attention to his body. Xiao Bo was about to ask her second brother about borrowing money, but she didn't expect her husband to say boldly: "You are also a motivated person, I will pay the 100,000 yuan, and you don't have to take it from your parents, their pension is almost the same for their own use." ”
When Xiao Bo heard this, he felt extremely cold. She worked part-time just to get a bigger house for her children, but now it seems that that hope has been dashed.
Her husband's words made her feel that she was treated as an outsider, and she was not consulted about borrowing money.
Married for 13 years, the former love seems to have been worn out by the trivialities of life, Xiao Box, deeply touched, in the second half of life, her husband is not the closest partner, and he cannot be her dependence.
For most married women, there is always the idea of "marrying a chicken and a dog", and they regard their husbands as their backing, but when they really need him, they find that he is not so reliable.
In fact, in the second half of life, health and money are the most important. Summer Life Record Note: All ** originate from the Internet, if it involves infringement, please contact to delete.