Wang Xin's relationship with the "Green Tea Girl" Sister Ling'er was broken by Ma Yan, on the surface, Ma Yan calmly blessed Wang Xin and Sister Ling'er, but in fact, her heart had already collapsed. The reason for the collapse is, translated in today's words:The ambiguous object was suddenly officially announced, but the content of the official announcement was not himself and him. 
01 The expression of "straight ball" is more lethal than "hidden and tucked".I'm not afraid of your jokes, just the last time I was hungry and fainted, you gave me White Rabbit toffee, and I liked youThe gentle and beautiful Sister Ling'er made a straight-ball confession, and directly confused Wang Xin, who was young and ignorant and had just opened her feelings, to "electricity"., suddenly at a loss, unable to speak for a while. At this time, the experienced Sister Ling did not give up, and carried out the second ** blow, expressing to Wang Xin that she knew that the things she felt about could not be forced, but when she said it, her heart was relaxed. This sentence is very good: you like me, I am happy, I don't like me, I deserve it. As much as I like you, you don't have to take any responsibility for the relationship. After Sister Ling'er confessed,On the surface, it seemed that Wang Xin didn't need to bear any pressure, but in fact, he skillfully let the other party take off his guard. 
And he has never expressed his liking to Wang Xin directlyMa Yan, after knowing that his sweetheart Wang Xin is in love with someone else,angrily asked Wang Xin to question, but Wang Xin didn't know why she was so unhappy. Speaking of which,was so angry that he was about to cry, and he didn't express his heart to Wang Xinonly threw down one sentence: I hate you, so I left angrily, leaving Wang Xin alone and confused. I think the straight man Wang Xin must be thinking in his heart at this moment: Why am I in love, why am I still unhappy with my sister (Ma Yan)? The two women around Wang Xin, he regarded Sister Ling, who was 5 months older, as his love object, but he regarded Ma Yan, who was of the same age, as his sister. lies in this layer of window paper, who grinds it more "thin". 
02 The giving of "emotional value" will make people dopamineWang Xin made a mistake at work, and he was full of enthusiasm and was poured a basin of cold water all of a sudden, not only feeling guilty in his heart, but also disappointed in himself. He blamed himself and was depressed in his heart, and he slept at home during the day and became depressed. Two rivals in love who learned of the situation(Ma Yan and Sister Ling'er) came to visit Wang Xin back and forth, and coincidentally wanted to invite Wang Xin to watch his favorite movie together. As soon as Ma Yan entered the door, she thought that Wang Xin was pretending to be asleep, and was about to scare Wang Xin with a fake walk, but when she saw that Wang Xin didn't move, she turned back and made Wang Xin happy with her noise. This made Wang Xin, who was depressed, even more irritable. Then Sister Ling'er came in, Ma Yan suddenly became possessive and quarreled with Sister Ling'er, and Wang Xin directly pushed both of them out of the door. In this round, Ma Yan and Sister Ling'er didn't get a good deal, and they didn't watch the movie. The difference is,After Wang Xin's mood stabilized, Sister Ling'er came to Wang Xin again. 
Seeing Wang Xin's portrait of a trafficker, Sister Ling'er said firmly:Sooner or later, you'll be able to catch her. Hearing Wang Xin say that he couldn't catch the traffickers and stopped being a policeman, Sister Ling'er was sincereKwa Wang Xin is very ambitious. Not only that,Sister Ling'er also picked up the portrait and took a closer look, telling Wang Xin that she had to remember this portrait, and that when she met the person on the portrait in the future, she would immediately tell Wang Xin. After Wang Xin made a mistake, everyone thought he had done something wrong. His own master poured cold water on his head and scolded himself for being a waste. Only Sister Ling'er has been encouraging him by her side, believing that he can. doesn't talk about the rights and wrongs of Wang Xin's work, only affirms Wang Xin's own value, and with a "rainbow fart" output, Sister Ling fills Wang Xin's emotional value with her emotional value. Wang Xin's eyes were visible to the naked eye. When people are happy, it is much easier to let him do things according to his own ideas. Sister Ling'er successfully went to the movie with Wang Xin, and successfully confessed, won Wang Xin, and got the result she wanted. 
03 ConclusionTo say that Ma Yan didn't like Wang Xin enough to not clarify her thoughts with Wang Xin for so long, it wasn't actually true. Ma Yan is very "tiger", for her parents and for unfair things, she can talk endlessly, and block others without saying. When I met Wang Xin, I was always one step slower. I probably cherish it very much, so I think about it repeatedly. 
Because in the education she received: her mother is a person who can swallow the bitterness alone for the sake of the family, and her father is even more old-fashioned, obviously others have done praiseworthy things, but he is fighting on the side. In Ma Yan's upbringing, she grew up being talked about when she was a child, and no one affirmed her later. Therefore, she is always one step behind others in the expression of emotions, and she is ashamed to talk about her feelings and hide them. Over time, the ability to praise others is lost, tooBecame a person of internal friction: wanting to get something, but holding it in his heart, hoping that others would notice. However, she did not get it:Not to mention, parents don't necessarily understand themselves, let alone others; If you don't show interest in others, how can others be interested in you. Once upon a time, chariots and horses were very slow, and there was only enough love for one person in a lifetime. But now, for feelings, it can not be romantic, but it can't be slow.