In the siege of the system, the anxiety of middle-aged people is often magnified, and it seems that every step is related to the fate of the future. However, the wisdom of the years tells us why we should be anxious about the unknown in three or five years' time. Each age group has its own unique mission and fun.
I'm more inclined to enjoy every moment of the moment. While others sharpen their heads in the workplace and compete to climb, I look for the poetry of life in the afterglow of work. Imagining a child's fingers jumping on the keys of the piano, or walking along a forest trail with the family on the weekend, these simple and heartwarming images are the treasures in my heart.
First and foremost, maintaining a peaceful mind is key. Within the system, promotion is not just a matter of individual effort, but also about the connections behind it and the right timing. Most people spend their entire lives and may end up just being a member of the middle class. So, why let the mentality of quick success disturb the peace of mind? Just like the weeds on the side of the road, even if they are not noticed, they have the value of their growth.
Second, focus on doing your part and don't focus too much on the outcome. It is impossible to satisfy everyone at work, and we must learn to be indifferent to the evaluation of others. Know how to discern what is baseless gossip and what is sincere and contrary to your ears. Treat those who are friendly with greater kindness, and those who are malicious should not be too polite. In any case, satisfy yourself before you think about others. When confronted with doubts, simply smile and respond: "What does this have to do with you?" ”
Also, respect others and live well. No envy, no complaining, no jealousy, everyone's life has its own challenges and troubles. Instead of envying others, it is better to live your life to the fullest. You know, the leader you may envy may be bothering about his child's poor grades at the moment.
Finally, why worry about what will happen in three to five years? There's never been a better time. Bring your heart and soul to work and enjoy life to the fullest after work. Take care of your family, schedule regular trips, enjoy alone time, read books, and savor coffee. Give good luck some time, keep being yourself, and good luck will come unexpectedly.
Acknowledging one's ordinariness is also a kind of courage. Many people actually live ordinary lives and don't have to be outstanding. As long as you can stay healthy, live peacefully, protect your current life, and be responsible for your family, this is an achievement in itself, a great way of life.