What is it like to learn that her ex-husband has remarried, for a divorced woman? According to a survey by the Marriage Research Institute, after divorce, the remarriage rate of men is 90%, while the remarriage rate of divorced women is only 70%. So, when she learns that her ex-husband has remarried, what will her ex-wife feel like when she is still single? Let's hear what divorced women really have to say.
"Man, that's good! Hearing the news of her ex-husband's remarriage, Xiao Yang sighed lightly. For her, seven years have passed since the divorce, and her ex-husband is just the father of the child, and there is no other emotional intersection. On the contrary, she has a faint sympathy for her ex-husband's current feelings. Deep down, she felt pity for another strange woman. Xiao Yang once had an unforgettable love, but due to economic reasons and distance, this relationship ended quietly. Deeply hurt, she met her ex-husband in the most difficult moment. Both of them are at a low point in their lives, like two hedgehogs in winter, snuggling up to each other. In those years, they were very close to each other, and their feelings were also very strong. However, when life gets a little better, the difference in their values begins to show. Xiao Yang just wants to live a peaceful life, but her ex-husband starts to play life. In the end, Xiao Yang suffered the biggest betrayal: her ex-husband cheated on her while she was pregnant.
2. "All departures are well thought out, and since you have chosen to separate, how can you turn back?" After the divorce, mutual friends and Xiao Yang's parents persuaded her to forgive her ex-husband and start over. However, seven years have passed, and Xiao Yang has rejected countless times. After learning that her ex-husband was cheating, Xiao Yang had begged for more than half a year. But not to save the marriage, but to arrange the pregnancy and life after the birth of the child. Only by solving these worries can she leave calmly. During that time, she put all her thoughts on herself and her children, and she was much less critical of her ex-husband, even when he cheated during her pregnancy, she chose to remain silent. After the child was born, perhaps out of guilt, or because the arrival of his daughter aroused his father's love, the ex-husband was exceptionally good to Xiao Yang. He goes out of his way to meet her needs and is patient and caring for his daughter. Under this performance, Xiao Yang's parents persuaded her not to worry too much, thinking that her ex-husband had changed his mind. However, Xiao Yang has already made up her mind to divorce her ex-husband when her job is stable and her children are taken care of. When she filed a divorce notice with her ex-husband, he was shocked.
After learning that her ex-husband had remarried, some of her mutual friends hinted that Xiao Yang might be jealous or unwilling, while her ex-husband thought she was obsessed. Xiao Yang just smiled silently. After the divorce, she never looked for a new partner because she didn't feel necessary. Marriage is not a necessity in life, she has parents, daughters, and her own career, and this life is good enough. The ex-husband has also been single, not because he has no chance, but because he does not want to be tied down. Entering marriage again is not because of love, but because of an unexpected pregnancy. The child's mother is ten years younger than her ex-husband and is an employee of his company. In this regard, Xiao Yang only felt a trace of pity and sympathy. She believes that everyone has many passers-by in their lives, and her ex-husband is just one of them. Whether he remarries or not has nothing to do with her. Life is lost again and again, and if it is lost, it is lost. She believes that living the moment is the most important thing.
In the journey of life, we will encounter all kinds of people and things, some of which have left a deep imprint, and some of which have passed by in a hurry. For divorced women, learning that their ex-husbands have remarried may be unexpected news, but in the torrent of life, they have learned how to face it strongly. Although facing an ex-husband's remarriage may stir up some emotions, they know that there is more to life than just marriage, and there is more to cherish.
Divorce does not mean failure, but rather a relief, an opportunity to start over. Leaving the shackles of marriage, they have more time and energy to pursue their dreams and focus on their own growth. No longer dependent on the affirmation and support of others, they have learned to be independent and to find joy and fulfillment from within.
As the child grows up, a divorced woman may play a dual role as both a father and a mother. They use their strength and love to give children the best environment to grow up and cultivate them to grow up healthy and happy. Although there may be some difficulties and challenges, they always firmly believe that motherly love is the greatest strength and can overcome all difficulties.
For divorced women, remarriage is not the only way out. They can choose to enjoy their single life, pursue their own interests and hobbies, and expand their life circle. Every choice in life is theirs, and no one can influence it. They are no longer limited to traditional family concepts, but bravely walk on their own path and pursue their own happiness.
Divorce is not the end, but a new beginning in life. In the process of divorce, they may be hurt and may feel lost, but it is all a process of growing up. Divorced women know how to cherish every experience, every lesson, because these are the weights for them to become stronger and more mature.
Therefore, divorced women may have a variety of emotions when they learn that their ex-husband has remarried, but they know that it does not affect their lives and happiness. They will continue to move forward and bravely face the challenges of the future because they believe that whatever happens will be a part of life to cherish and remember.