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Sanmao once said: "Love can't be hidden, close your mouth, and your eyes will say it." ”I deeply believe that in the relationship, love or not, even if you don't say it, your words and deeds will inevitably be revealed. It's like a cold and cough that can't be hidden.
In a relationship, when a man falls in love with someone, even if he is not good at words, it can be seen from his eyes and full of tenderness.
He will not only pay attention to you wholeheartedly, but will always be the first to be there for you when you have a need, giving you a full sense of security.
However, if a man doesn't love you anymore, his behavior can't be hidden, and when there are two manifestations, women don't be stupid, especially the second one.
1. Indifference
Yishu once said: "When a man no longer loves his woman, it is wrong for her to cry, it is wrong to be silent, it is wrong to breathe alive, and it is wrong to die." ”I deeply believe that in a relationship, if a man no longer loves, he will become cold and ruthless. No matter how hard you give, be good to him, he is a blind man who can't see.
This kind of indifference is cold to the heart, no matter how enthusiastic a woman is, she can't cover such an iceberg.
Xiaoqian said that her husband is such a man.
When they fell in love, when she sneezed, he would be so nervous, saying that he was afraid that she would get sick.
When the two are separated, the messages are answered in seconds, and even when he is in the shower, he will dry his hands and reply to her messages immediately.
She once teased him: "Do you reply to other people's messages in seconds?" ”。But her husband told her very seriously: "Only your message is a second reply!" ”
Although it is a simple sentence, it also makes Xiaoqian feel that her husband attaches importance and seriousness to her. But it is precisely because I have been taken seriously that this feeling is deep in my heart.
Once the other party no longer loves, the gap can be imagined how obvious it is. Therefore, now Xiaoqian's husband has moved away from love, and his attitude towards her has plummeted.
Now that Xiaoqian is sick and lying in bed and can't get up, her husband doesn't even look at it, let alone carrying water and medicine.
It can be seen that when a man no longer loves, he may not propose to break up, but his behavior is indifferent and ruthless.
At this time, women should stop making any illusions, because no matter what you do, you can't save the heart of this ruthless person, and letting go in time is the best choice.
2. Tighten your wallet
Tu Lei once said: "A man, if he cares about money very much, but he is unwilling to share the money with you, he is willing to share the time with you, it doesn't mean that he loves you." On the other hand, if he cares a lot about money but is willing to take it out and share it with you, it means true love. ”I deeply believe that a man is willing to spend money for you does not mean that he loves you, but if a man is not willing to spend a penny for you, it means that he really does not love you.
A man who really loves you, he will not be reluctant to spend money for you, he will only be afraid of not giving you enough. A man who doesn't love you is a good accountant and can tell you clearly.
My friend Xiao Zhao and her husband have been married for seven years, and after giving birth to their son, they have been a full-time wife at home, taking care of the home and the outside in an orderly manner, so that the husband has no worries and can concentrate on starting a business.
However, three years later, when her husband started a successful business, he empathized and fell in love with the young secretary.
In order to force Xiao Zhao to break up, he not only broke Xiao Zhao's credit card, but also tightened it to Xiao Zhao's household little by little.
In fact, when a man is no longer in love, the clues can be seen in the details of his behavior, the most obvious is tightening his wallet.
At this time, a woman has to make a rational choice, for the man who no longer loves you, don't force it to stay, you can be better, don't humbly redeem the man who can't return to your heart.
Closing Remarks:
There is such a saying: "In the relationship, if you love, please love deeply, if you don't love, don't hurt." ”
In fact, in a relationship, once a person changes his mind, he will become cruel and ruthless. No matter how much you keep it, you can't change the other party's heart to leave.
When a man is no longer in love, he has these two manifestations: indifference to you; Tighten his wallet.
So, a woman to a man who no longer loves you, let him be the past! Because to pay for such a person is not only painful for yourself, but also very unworthy.
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