As the old saying goes, "Dragons give birth to dragons, phoenixes give birth to phoenixes, and rat sons burrow into the ground." ”
I never thought that such an "iron law" would be placed on the matter of learning. It didn't work at all.
Who would have thought that the generation of scholars who once stood out from the crowd would finally give birth to a group of scumbags of the second generation.
Recently, many parents have complained on the Internet that they were really smooth in their studies back then. Although he also studied hard, he finally survived, was admitted to a prestigious school, and got a high degree, which cannot be said to be a glorious ancestor, but it can be regarded as changing his fate. But who would have thought that there are unforeseen storms and rains, and the children born by themselves have not inherited themselves at all in learning. The grades were not as high as my own shoe size, and I couldn't help but cry when I thought about it.
A mother complained that she was a master's degree from a prestigious university, and her husband was an alumnus of her university. Now I have a second-grade child at home, and the final exam is 34 Chinese and 25 in mathematics. Knowing that the child's results are simply **, and what makes her even more desperate is that she herself is still a Chinese teacher, while her husband teaches mathematics. She couldn't understand that under such conditions, her children's grades were still such a mess, and she really had a feeling of shame for her ancestors.
Coincidentally. At the class reunion of Hefei No. 1 Middle School. A mother couldn't help but complain: "Our group of school tyrants actually raised a bunch of second-generation school scum students." "That kind of unwillingness and sadness can be felt through the screen.
Think about it, too, I used to be a top student in my studies, and I have achieved relative success through my efforts to rise from a small city. However, what I didn't expect was that my next generation might face a completely different reality, and I couldn't see any improvement in my studies, so how could this not make people feel anxious and uneasy. Could it be that you have worked hard and finally have to return to the starting point?
Like many parents, this group of middle-aged people from Hefei No. 1 Middle School entered 985 and 211 colleges and universities through the college entrance examination, and they were definitely the representatives of the top students at that time. It stands to reason that their children should be the "second generation". But the reality is a slap in the face, their children show a different academic level from their parents, with poor grades, and some even find it difficult to go to high school, which really arouses deep thinking and resonance among parents.
We can also see here that learning has nothing to do with heredity. Or rather, it doesn't matter much. It has a lot to do with the child's own internal drive and the environment in which he is located. The parents worked hard to get out of the way, providing a good living environment for the next generation and laying the best learning conditions. It may not be able to make children's learning progressive, and it may also make them pampered and lack the determination to work hard. The children of poor families are in charge of the family early, they are more able to endure hardships, have more tenacity, and have more motivation to move forward.
In terms of learning, the primary school is about habits, the junior high school is about perseverance, and the high school is about skills, and he is inseparable from the company and encouragement of his parents.
In fact, education should be a positive process. It motivates students to develop their potential through personal efforts, and cannot prematurely burden children with their parents' expectations. This will put a heavy burden on the child. To put it another way, even if a child fails to get into a prestigious school, it doesn't mean that they don't have other options in life.
The future is so long, who can say for sure what will happen in the future?