Zhang Jimu, a famous educator in modern China, has four daughters, they are Zhang Yuanhe, Zhang Yunhe, Zhang Zhaohe and Zhang Chonghe, these four daughters have received a good education, and can be called "a family of four talented women".
The four of them are also known as the "Four Sisters of the Zhang Family" and "The Last Lady". Because they are all from Hefei, they are also known as the "Four Sisters of Hefei".
Zhang Yunhe, known as the "white-haired talented girl", is the second oldest among the four sisters. She is not only well-read in poetry and talented, but also tenacious on the road of life.
Although fate was unfair to her, giving her a sick and weak body, and even the curse of an early white head, she always struggled with illness and death, and finally witnessed the dawn of the 21st century at the age of more than 90.
Her story, like a bright starlight, illuminates our life path and makes us understand that even if life is difficult, we must stick to our dreams and live our own wonderful life.
Zhang Yunhe is about to usher in her 50th birthday, I heard that she will not live to be 50 years old, doesn't that mean that she is not far from the end of her life? In the face of such a sentence, normal people may have collapsed long ago, and their mentality collapsed before they died of illness.
However, Zhang Yunhe was calm as usual after learning the news, and set the "three nos" principle for himself, and finally succeeded in breaking the doctor's prediction at the age of 93. So, what kind of life experience did Zhang Yunhe have?
What kind of "three noes" did she set? Born into a prestigious family, Jang Yun-ho has lived a wealthy life since he was a child, with open-minded parents and harmonious family relationships.
Later, she devoted herself to the cause of education and married the linguist Zhou Youguang, and the husband and wife spent more than half a century of ups and downs together, living happily.
Zhang Yunhe's legendary life was not all smooth sailing, but experienced the cruel test of fate. Her birth was full of challenges, she was born less than four pounds, and she didn't make a sound for a long time.
If it weren't for her grandmother's insistence on observation, she might have been abandoned. Despite all her glory, Jang Yoon-ho has always fought against her illness, and her tenacity and courage are examples for us to follow.
Zhang Yunhe is not sentimental, but he was ignorant and often cried when he was a child. This frail and crying image is often mistaken for Lin Daiyu. In fact, the strong and optimistic side of Jang Yoon-ho's personality gradually emerged as he grew older.
She admires heroes like Xiang Yu, not Lin Daiyu.
Zhang Yunhe and Zhou Youguang's marriage is full of strange fate. Before they decided to get married, they asked a fortune teller to test the eight characters, but the results were surprising. The fortune teller said that their eight characters did not match, and so did the chosen wedding date"The day of the murder", if the two get married, they will probably not live to be 35 years old.
However, Jang Yun-wha was not intimidated by these statements, and instead responded with optimism: "I think the end is a new beginning. In this way, they still married Zhou Youguang, and as a result, both of them lived past the age of 90.
Their love story tells us that believing in your own choices and facing difficulties bravely is a bright future ahead.
Zhang Yunhe and Zhou Youguang's married life was warm and happy, but the good times did not last long, and Japan's full-scale war of aggression against China broke out. Zhou Youguang was in another country, and Zhang Yunhe could only take his young twin children to embark on the road of "fleeing thousands of miles" and flee to Sichuan.
However, fate was ruthless, and her daughter Zhou Xiaohe fell seriously ill during this period and had a high fever. Due to the lack of resources during the war, Zhang Yunhe was unable to find a doctor to treat his daughter in the chaos, and in the end, although she searched for a doctor, it was too late, and Zhou Xiaohe unfortunately passed away.
Jang Yoon-ho's life was full of hardships, first she lost her beloved daughter, then her loving father, and the old nanny who accompanied her through many difficult days also passed away.
Her son Zhou Xiaoping suffered misfortune in the war and was seriously injured, but fortunately, Zhou Xiaoping was finally rescued. Jang Yunhe himself was plagued by cancer, and after a major surgery, he was able to recover his health.
In addition, during the war, their family often had to be bombed by the Japanese army, and what made them even more disturbing was that there were often gangsters who took advantage of the opportunity**, and their family was stunned and their belongings were looted, which had a huge impact on their economic situation.
After the upheaval of the victory of the Anti-Japanese War, Zhang Yunhe and his family finally settled down, but fate seemed to have other arrangements for her. In the years that followed, she encountered setbacks and difficulties one after another.
Looking back on the past, Zhang Yunhe once sighed: "Fate wants to temper me, and what I am left with is the most difficult topic." As early as 1944, she was diagnosed with heart disease, and her condition deteriorated day by day.
By 1959, after examination by authoritative doctors, they made a pessimistic picture of her condition**: because the heart disease had worsened, she probably did not live to be 50 years old.
This news was undoubtedly a bolt from the blue for Zhang Yunhe, who was about to turn 50 years old, but her reaction was unexpected. In the face of the doctor's prophecy, she did not choose to be depressed, but decided to fight against fate and break this prophecy.
Zhang Yunhe knew her physical condition well, so she set the "three noes" principle for herself and insisted on it. Despite the numerous challenges that life has presented her, she never gives up and chooses to face them with a positive attitude.
1.Do not punish yourself for the fault of others, but try to get rid of their influence as much as possible and get out of the situation. 2.When you make mistakes, be brave enough to take responsibility and don't run away from problems, which will only complicate the conflict.
3.Everyone makes mistakes at times, and they should be sincere in their dealings with others rather than blaming them on to others.
In the long night, let's pause and reflect on our own lives and identify those possible mistakes. Sometimes we imagine that if we had made a different choice at the time, the outcome might have been very different, or that we might have been able to maintain a friendship if we had taken a different attitude towards someone.
However, the past cannot be changed, and we can learn from it and make up for our mistakes, but we don't need to blame ourselves. We should be brave enough to move forward, believing that the reality will become better and better, and those regrets will disappear with it.
Jang Yoon-ho's optimistic attitude to life has influenced her husband, Zhou Youguang, and their life together. Zhou Youguang implemented the "three self" principle, that is, self-reliance, self-satisfaction, self-satisfaction, relying on oneself to live, and finding the joy of life.
Although their lives have not always been smooth, and even encountered doubts and shocks, Jang Yun-ho has always adhered to her "three noes" principle and always maintained an optimistic attitude.
In the end, she successfully crossed the threshold of 50 years old and lived to be 93 years old, outliving the two doctors who had made up her mind at the beginning, completely shattering their predictions.
Jang Yoon-ho insists on doing what he wants to do, and age is not a constraint. She proved with practical actions that people can learn new knowledge even when they are old. At the age of 86, she began to learn computers and even became proficient in typing.
Not only that, she founded her own magazine "Water" on the computer, and republished the magazine after a hiatus of more than 50 years, sharing many interesting stories about the life of the Zhang family. Although she was in constant pain from illness, she was in a good mental state in her later years and took care of herself every day.
Shortly before her death, she continued to write. Jang Yoon-ho's experience teaches us how important it is for a person to maintain a healthy mindset. Some people are too tired to live, always full of resentment, and vent their anger every day, but in reality, it is their own bodies that hurt the most in the process.