A 57-year-old ballroom dancing aunt said frankly: "I was greedy for fun and danced ballroom dance, but I didn't expect to lose my marriage."
My wife and I have been married for 35 years, and our marriage has been okay for 35 years, and there is no relationship more like a partnership.
The children got married and started a business, they were very sensible and knew that they felt sorry for the elderly, and their grandchildren did not let the old couple take them.
After retirement, every day enjoyed the life of the old age that they wanted, at that time we often traveled, that is, the group went to the farmhouse barbecue, the days of retirement in the past few years, we lived a very leisurely life, and we never left the **.
At that time, I fantasized that I could maintain this kind of life forever, but I only enjoyed this good retirement life for 5 years, and my wife was getting worse and worse because of her age, so she had to take care of her body at home every day.
I felt very bored after not being able to go out until I was introduced to square dancing.
Then I went to the square with a few women of the same age in the community to dance the square dance, when I first started practicing square dance, I thought it was very interesting, and then after learning, I danced in the square for a bell or two every day, and after the dance, I would go home and dance to my wife, who praised me at the time, saying that I was a woman with a lot of dancing talent, and that my dancing was particularly beautiful.
I was very happy to be praised by my wife, and then I was more active in square dancing, and then after dancing for a while, I changed to ballroom dancing, because there are a lot of people dancing there, and I also wanted to try it, and ballroom dancing can not only get close to my dance partner, but also be able to chat together, so that I will not be bored while dancing and talking, I will only find it interesting.
Originally, my wife didn't know that I was dancing ballroom dance, and then I heard others say that I was dancing with other men, at that time he was very angry, so he persuaded me not to dance anymore, and said that ballroom dancing is easy to have accidents.
I'm just ballroom dancing, nothing happens, why do you say such ugly things, what is easy to get into trouble? I'm not that kind of woman. "After my wife was scolded by me, he immediately quieted down, and since then he has been much more indifferent to me.
At that time, I didn't pay much attention to his feelings, and I would go to ballroom dancing on time every day. My regular dance partner is a 65-year-old man who has been retired for many years, and every time I dance with him, he cares about me and often buys me good food.
Later, slowly I and he got closer and closer, and the two of us also got to know each other, both of whom knew that the other had a family, and we could keep our distance at first, but after dancing for a long time, we had feelings for each other, and then he asked me out for dinner, and we were together that night.
I get angry when I think my wife always blames me for ballroom dancing, so I want to take revenge on him in this way, so that I can get a balance in my heart.
Later, after having an extramarital affair, I thought that this matter could be kept hidden, but I didn't expect to be with a male dance partner, and I was found out by my wife in a month, and then I was beaten by my dance partner's wife, and after being beaten, I ran back to read and cry with my wife, but my wife scolded me for being shameless, and asked me for a divorce, and I went out of the house.
At that moment, I was not good, and then I kept begging him not to divorce, but he ignored me, and did not hesitate to kick me out of the house, I regretted it very much, I didn't expect an extramarital affair to bring me so much trouble, not only the marriage was gone, but also was beaten by others, and I lost everything.
After nothing, I could only go to my lover, but my lover broke up with me directly because I hurt him, and warned me not to disturb him, otherwise he would never let me have good fruit to eat, and I didn't dare to bother at that time, because I was also afraid of being beaten again, so I could only rent a house outside by myself.
I also wanted to go to live with my children, but they didn't want to accept me, they thought I was a very dirty person, and my reputation was completely ruined since I had an affair.
So I really regret ballroom dancing.