Over the years, as soon as the Spring Festival arrives, the husband and wife quarrel over which home to go back to for the holiday, the public says that the public is reasonable, the mother-in-law says that the mother-in-law is reasonable, this year's Spring Festival, this problem has been solved! The expert gave another suggestion, that is: husband and wife can spend the festival separately, there is nothing bad about the "husband and wife separation Spring Festival", the specific advice is: "The man takes the child home for the New Year, and the woman goes back to her parents' house alone"! 
Experts say that this suggestion is aimed at "letting children stay with their husbands and giving their mothers a holiday, which is the most affordable Spring Festival reward for mothers." As soon as the proposal came out, it caused a lot of heated discussions on the Internet, with some people accusing experts of not considering the actual situation, while others raised their hands in favor. 
Miss Li from Guangzhou posted on January 29 that she has been married for 6 years and has returned to her home for 4 consecutive years with her husband, and there is nothing bad about it. 
Some female netizens also agreed with this suggestion, thinking that the expert finally made the right suggestion! 
Most of the friends who agree with it want to be with their mothers during the New Year, after all, the number of times they can see each other in a year is limited. 
Some female netizens are worried that their husbands have opinions. is planning how to make her husband see expert advice without being too deliberate. 
There are many male interviewees who said that since ancient times, China has been going back to their in-laws' homes to celebrate the New Year, and since they are married, of course, they want to celebrate the New Year together. Obviously, this suggestion was opposed by many female netizens. 
Some netizens who oppose the New Year separately said that this is very good, which is very convenient for everyone to go home and go on a blind date. This netizen's opinion is very dangerous. 
Although the situation of each family is different, I feel that this suggestion is mainly aimed at families who marry far away. If they are all in the same city, the mother-in-law's house in the morning, the mother's house in the evening, or the mother's house in the morning and the mother-in-law's house in the evening, the children will not have to work hard.
In fact, to be honest, the mother-in-law doesn't care whether the daughter-in-law goes back to her mother-in-law's house for the New Year, and the comments of netizens hit the nail on the head, and the daughter-in-law came back for the New Year, just to confirm whether her son is not divorced. Most mothers feel sorry for their sons and daughters.
For the woman, it must be a little harder to go back to her mother-in-law's house, some netizens said, believe it or not, go back to her mother-in-law's house and be busy in the kitchen from morning to night, and when you return to your mother's house, you can wait for Erlang's legs to eat. To a certain extent, this is also representative of the situation of the traditional family.
Although many women don't want to go to their in-laws' house for the New Year, they are afraid that the people in the village will say that they will go back to their parents' house alone for the New Year, and they are afraid that others will gossip about whether they are divorced.
Some netizens said that they didn't want to go on either side, so they wanted to spend the New Year quietly in their own nest, go shopping, do **, and the years would be quiet, and they didn't have to face the worldly disputes of the three aunts and six mothers-in-law.
Moreover, after returning to her parents' house, there is still a sister-in-law, what if the sister-in-law doesn't want to go back to her parents' house, what can I do?
However, there are also enlightened mothers-in-law, as well as future mothers-in-law, who said that they would let their sons go to their wives' maiden homes for the New Year and try to be clean for themselves. Or just make your daughter-in-law happy, and if you want to celebrate the New Year, you can celebrate the New Year.
In addition, netizens also discussed the question of who the child went home with. Some netizens said that the children were too noisy, so they brought them to their husbands, and finally took a holiday, so they didn't want to take the children for the New Year.
Some netizens also said, why can't the baby go back to her parents' house with her mother? Grandparents miss their grandchildren, grandparents also miss their grandchildren, and their parents go back to their parents' homes, why can't children follow their mothers, for children this is also going back to their parents' homes. Ha ha.
Some netizens said that the baby most likely will not go back to his hometown with his father, after all, he is usually brought by his mother, and he is also close to his mother, so he insists that the child go back to his mother-in-law's house with his father, which is too torturous for the child, and he does not take into account the actual situation at all.
There is also a more reasonable compromise plan is to go back to their own homes, and the children have the final say. It's also a way to go home with whomever you want.
After reading everyone's discussion, I finally understood why I didn't want to have children in the future, there was only one mistake not to get married, and when I got married, there were contradictions everywhere.
I think that it is only seven or eight days after the New Year, how comfortable and how to come, such as a family a year, or go home separately, and the child takes a turn once a year, which can be. During the Chinese New Year, the husband and wife should discuss each other's affairs, and don't refer too much to other people's opinions, after all, every family's situation is different. As long as you don't have an obsession and argue about it. What do you think, friends?