Wen Xue'er.
Voltaire once said, "In an avalanche, not a single snowflake feels responsible." The same applies to the situation when you reach middle age and the opposite sex is overly enthusiastic about you.
In this complex society, the relationship between people has also become confusing.
We need to be vigilant when a person of the opposite sex shows excessive enthusiasm for you, as this often does not escape the following two purposes.
1.Profit-driven.
Sharp. Motivation is a common cause of excessive enthusiasm in the opposite sex. In real life, we often see such cases.
Some people will be overly enthusiastic about the opposite sex because of the interests of their work, or for a certain purpose.
They may use all sorts of tactics to cater to you, and they may even do whatever it takes to gain your trust.
However, once they have achieved their purpose, they may leave without mercy.
As Shakespeare said, "Love is not true love if it is mixed with calculations that have nothing to do with it." "This interest-based enthusiasm is false and not worth the affection we pay for.
2.Thrill-seeking.
Thrill-seeking is also a big reason for the overzealousness of the opposite sex. Some people find it boring in their marriage, and they may use you as the spice of their marriage, seeking a fresh thrill.
This kind of person often doesn't give you a real heart, they are just looking for a temporary happiness.
As Plato said, "Only love can make a man dare to give his life for the one he loves." "True love is firm and exclusive, not a substitute for a momentary stimulus.
When confronted with excessive enthusiasm of the opposite sex, we need to keep a clear head and see their true purpose.
Don't be fooled by superficial enthusiasm, learn to protect yourself from being hurt.
At the same time, we must also stick to our own moral bottom line and not become a tool for other people's interests or a spice for marriage.
When people reach middle age, we should cherish more people around us who really care about and love us. Spending a peaceful and happy time with them is the true meaning of life.
As Mencius said, "A gentleman is different from others, and he is also with his heart." "Let's treat everyone with sincerity and kindness, so that we can have real and beautiful emotions.