01 The second grandmother has a soft spot for Xiangxiu. When Xiangxiu was a teenage girl, she attracted the attention of the second grandmother because she got along well with the second grandmother's dog. When the second grandmother proposed to let her be the girl who hugged the dog and followed her back to the gate of the Bai family, Xiangxiu decisively refused. This decision shows Xiangxiu's personality: she is not a person who fears power or seeks wealth. The second grandmother appreciated Xiangxiu's personality and decided to spend a lot of money to buy her.
The second grandmother has a long-term vision, she sees Xiangxiu not only as a girl holding a dog, but also as her own apprentice. Under the protection of the second grandmother, Xiangxiu is mainly responsible for holding the dog, and no one dares to call her except for the second grandmother. This is precisely because the second grandmother thinks that Xiangxiu is not an ordinary girl, but has greater potential.
Unlike Huaihua, Xiangxiu followed her second grandmother when she was a teenager, and was deeply influenced by her second grandmother's style of doing things, and learned a lot of things. The acacia flower is gentle and careful, suitable for serving people; And Xiangxiu is spicy and assertive, and is more suitable for doing big things. This is also why the second grandmother made arrangements for Huaihua's future before she died, but did not make any arrangements for Xiangxiu's future.
In addition, the missions of Sophora and Xiangxiu are also different.
02 The acacia flower is a key chess piece in the layout of the second grandmother. Under the arrangement of the second grandmother, Huaihua was accepted by Bai Jingqi on her deathbed. The second grandmother thinks that although Huang Chun is gentle and tolerant, it may not have a long lifespan, so it will not pose a threat to the acacia flower. And Huaihua, in the eyes of the second grandmother, is more like a chess piece against Yang Jiuhong.
After Huang Chun's death, Yang Jiuhong thought that she was about to become the mistress of the Bai family, and began to compete with Huaihua for jealousy, and even forcibly brought Huaihua when transporting medicine in the Northeast. The purpose of her trip is threefold: first, to show Bai Jingqi her ability, so that she can be corrected as the seventh wife in the future; the second is to take this opportunity to demonstrate to the acacia flowers; The third is that after he leaves, Huaihua will make waves in the Bai family. Huaihua is quite favored in front of Bai Jingqi, although Yang Jiuhong has always been against her, but the result is unexpected. Yang Jiuhong and Huaihua left Bai Jingqi for the Northeast, but Xiangxiu became the biggest beneficiary. As the head of the Bai family, the second grandmother is well aware of her great responsibility. She understands her son's character, and what she is most worried about is that Bai Jingqi's woman cannot properly manage the housework and bring trouble to the family. She observed Yang Jiuhong for a long time and understood that this woman was not right-hearted and was not suitable to be the seventh wife of the Bai family. However, the direct abolition of her may cause Bai Jingqi's disgust. Therefore, the second grandmother decided to lay chess pieces around Bai Jingqi.
The acacia flower is used to refine Yang Jiuhong. If Yang Jiuhong can accept Huaihua like Huang Chun accepts her, then she will not be easily excluded. However, in the eyes of the second grandmother, a woman who has been unwilling to bow her head by her side for many years will not tolerate Huaihua. In the back house, the jealous women show their ugliest side. Yang Jiuhong was jealous of competing with Huaihua and forced Huaihua to death, which caused Bai Jingqi's disgust. This is exactly what the second grandmother expected.
However, what the second grandmother didn't expect was that not only did she use the acacia flower as a chess piece, but Xiangxiu also used the acacia flower. Xiangxiu's methods are clever, and the reason why she stayed in the Bai family is said to be Bai Jingqi's idea. In fact, the second grandmother had long seen that Bai Jingqi was interested in Xiangxiu, which is why she only arranged Huaihua before she died, but not Xiangxiu. Xiangxiu used the acacia flower to arch the fire everywhere, so that the acacia flower was burned and forced to death by Yang Jiuhong, which made Bai Jingqi disgusted with Yang Jiuhong. This trick of killing two birds with one stone made Xiangxiu the final winner.
Xiangxiu is a smart woman. has been by the side of the second grandmother for so many years, and after her training, she is more ambitious and strategic than Huaihua. She knows what she's aiming for and works towards it. Unlike Yang Jiuhong, Xiangxiu did not take the initiative to approach Bai Jingqi, but attracted Huang Chun's attention with the dress he wore when he was young, and wanted to refuse and welcome. Xiangxiu's rejection of Bai Jingqi's pursuit made him more and more fascinated. The 28-year-old girl thought that the time had come to get married, and deliberately said that she was going to get married, forcing Bai Jingqi to take action. It's her little cleverness. Xiangxiu has always been in control of her relationship with Bai Jingqi, and she has been taking birth control pills from the beginning to prevent pregnancy from being used as a handle, and at the same time preparing herself to become Mrs. Seven. However, due to long-term medication, she lost her fertility, which was a consequence she did not expect.
In the end, Xiangxiu got her wish and became Mrs. Seven. In fact, the second grandmother also hopes that Xiangxiu can become the seventh wife, and she carefully teaches Xiangxiu the skills of housekeeping, because she knows that Xiangxiu is not satisfied with just being a maid. She knew her son's personality and knew that he needed a good helper. And Xiangxiu is undoubtedly the right person. After her death, Xiangxiu can only rely on her own abilities.
In the eyes of the second grandmother, Xiangxiu is a key chess piece placed by Bai Jingqi's side, and her success is directly related to the future of the Bai family. As the helmsman of the Bai family, the second grandmother laid a foundation for her son's future, including saving money abroad and reserves of valuable medicinal herbs, as well as arranging for Huaihua and Xiangxiu to get close to Bai Jingqi. She knows Bai Jingqi's temper and personality well, and avoids potential difficulties for him. It can be said that she has made great efforts to ensure the future of the old Bai family.
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Since Xiangxiu married Bai Jingqi, she began to follow the second grandmother's method and run around for the Bai family's affairs. It also shows that meeting the right people and platforms is crucial to a person's destiny. If she were in her hometown, Xiangxiu might just be an ordinary peasant girl.