In married life, whether a man or a woman, don't be stupid enough to ask each other if they still love you.
Because when you ask this question, it shows that you are painstaking, and you are working hard, and it also exposes your own lack of self-confidence. On the other hand, you are suspicious, or at least you don't believe in yourself.
That's why you ask the other person this question from time to time, i.e., do you still love me?
In fact, asking the other party such a question, on the one hand, you will be passive, on the other hand, it may also make the other party feel proud, and even become arrogant, leading to despising you in the future.
So, don't ask the other party this question again in the future, we just need to listen to what they say and watch their deeds as the old saying goes.
Husband and wife accompany each other day and night, and after work, they are basically inseparable, and it is definitely not difficult to listen to their words and watch their deeds.
Mainly from the following aspects of action, to feel whether the other party still loves you or not:
1. Be proactive and inclusive.
No matter what the relationship is now, at least a couple has had a honeymoon period. You can think back to that time, when you made a mistake or had any bad habits, did the other party not take it to heart, but happily accepted it. Then you might as well compare, now your faults are still there, if they still exist as always, the other party has not mentioned this stubble at all.
If not, then it can be proved that the other party still tolerates you and truly loves you.
2. Take the initiative to make concessions.
Marriage, in fact, is oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, chai, rice tea, and a symphony of pots and pans, two people have been together for a long time, and it is inevitable that they will quarrel over some trivial things, or quarrel, and after the quarrel, they will start a cold war of disregard for each other.
As the old saying goes, husband and wife quarrel at the head of the bed and at the end of the bed, and the two do not hold grudges when they quarrel. It means that after a quarrel, there will always be one party who will come to make peace with a high profile, and the other party will go down the stairs and the two sides will reconcile. If the other party will take the initiative to put down their subordinates and make concessions every time they quarrel to apologize to you and make peace, then the other party really loves you as always.
3. Take the initiative to care.
Sometimes, love doesn't have to be on the lips all the time. Not saying I love you is not not loving you. In this regard, men are like this, the longer they are married, the less they will talk about loving you. Because of love, he will put it into action, even if it is a little bit or a trivial matter, it can really reflect his love for his own woman. When it rains, they will come all the way to deliver an umbrella or take you to and from work. When it's cold, it will remind you to wear more clothes, and when you're tired from work, you will silently pour you a glass of water......And so on, these are enough to prove that the other party really loves you.
4. Take good care of yourself.
Especially when one party is unwell or in a bad mood, you can feel the care and love shown by the other party. Be anxious about what you are anxious about, think about what you think. For example, take the initiative to take on some housework, take the initiative to ask for warmth, take the initiative to enlighten you, or tell some funny things or jokes, to distract your mind and make you ......happyWait, these are enough to prove that the other party cares about you. A person who cares about your feelings is the same as a person who cares about you. Isn't it the best answer for someone who cares about you as a person to love you?
To sum up, whether it is tolerance or concession; Whether it is care or love, it should be mutual between the two parties, that is, mutual respect, mutual understanding, mutual tolerance, and mutual deep love.
Therefore, don't ask the other party if they still love you, love is felt. If husband and wife really can't feel each other's love, then they really have to find their own reasons.
Follow me and don't get lost on the road of love.