It's really hard to believe that there are endless big sisters in the world who belittle their younger brothers and sisters-in-law, I don't know what kind of psychology such a big sister is? How much good does it do her to belittle her younger brother and daughter-in-law to worthlessness and praise herself to the sky?
Since the day of her brother and sister-in-law, the eldest sister always looked at her brother-in-law with wrong eyes, she looked at her brother-in-law not with her eyes, but looked around from head to toe, always to find out what she was not satisfied with, such as her hair was not tidied well, she should not dye the color, the clothes did not match well, she should not buy clothes, she should be careful when she got married, she should wear pajamas at home or pick up old clothes that others don't want to wear......
Anyway, as long as the eldest sister always preaches every time she sees her brother and daughter-in-law, she also says vigorously: "When, I will teach you a good lesson and teach you how to be a good woman, and be a good woman who can live!" The brother-in-law laughed angrily at the eldest sister's words, and told her that she didn't need to bother to teach herself how to be a good woman, and that she should ask her brother-in-law to teach her brother how to be a good man with an annual income of millions when she had time!
It is also possible that the younger sister-in-law is not very good at saying nice words, and her words contradict the eldest sister, so the eldest sister does not like her brother and daughter-in-law in every way, and often comes to find fault every once in a while, and keeps talking with one mouth, anyway, there is no good word. If the eldest sister doesn't like her brother-in-law, it can still be understood, after all, the brother-in-law and the eldest sister have no blood relationship, only a nominal relationship, but the eldest sister has the same attitude towards her own brother, not only speaking disrespectfully and slandering to her face, but also publicizing how unbearable her younger brother and daughter-in-law are behind her back! Some of them were all talked about by the eldest sister, which brought a lot of trouble to the younger brother and sister-in-law!
Whether it is the eldest aunt who meets someone she knows outside or fights with others** or someone else fights with her**, as long as there is someone who knows her younger brother and sister-in-law, the eldest sister has to chatter and say bad things about her younger brother and daughter-in-law, because the eldest sister is rich, most people believe the words of the eldest sister, after all, what the rich say has weight, only a small number of people who know about the younger brother and sister-in-law do not believe the eldest sister, tell her not to talk nonsense, and it is not good for her to ruin the reputation of her younger brother and sister-in-law everywhere!
When encountering this kind of truth-telling person, the eldest sister is always angry and quarrels with others, saying that her family is so rich, saying that everyone takes it seriously, only people like her who don't know how to lift are more serious, don't ask her for anything in the future, she won't help if she asks for her!
Not long ago, due to some things, the relatives of the younger brother and sister-in-law played with the eldest sister, probably meaning that they wanted to help the younger brother and daughter-in-law, and they were afraid that the younger brother and sister-in-law would not know how to be grateful or something like that, the eldest sister could be regarded as having found a bosom friend, and said desperately in **: "Yes, my brother and sister-in-law are such people, no matter how much I pay, I contribute money and efforts, they never know how good or bad, so I don't pay later, no matter what difficulties they encounter, they pretend not to know, they don't want to borrow a penny in my hands!"
My younger brother and sister-in-law are two fools, just like the old saying 'not a family, not a family', a bed is not covered by two kinds of people, only fools will marry fools, they are not only stupid, but also can't speak, as soon as they open their mouths, they are offended, you can't treat them like normal people, you have to treat them like fools.
If you have anything to say directly, you don't have to be too polite to them, even if you don't respect them, the two fools won't be able to detect it. Anyway, it's just two fools, you don't have to give them face, let alone respect them. The two of them are like two pieces of wood, they will only move if you dial them, and sometimes, if you dial them, they may not necessarily move, stupid like this, what dignity is there? ”
If you want to ask how the younger brother and daughter-in-law know these words, it was the eldest sister who said it unintentionally when chatting with her younger brother and daughter-in-law, after saying it, the eldest sister realized it and immediately changed the topic, and the younger sister-in-law was in a panic, so many years, the eldest sister is still like when she first got married, she is picky, despises, and has no mouth to spare, and she is everywhere promoting the reputation of her brother and daughter-in-law as fools, and this situation seems to continue until the day when the eldest sister leaves!
The younger brother and sister-in-law didn't seem to offend the eldest sister, at most, they didn't flatter her like others and picked her up, as for belittling her everywhere? Besides, what good does the eldest sister have for herself to belittle her own brother and sister-in-law so much? What is the psychology of the eldest sister doing this?