Husbands and wives belong to the same phase, what will happen to their lives? Know early, plan early
At the end of the year, especially around the Spring Festival, it is the peak marriage season in rural areas, and many rural single men and women will be invited by their parents or relatives to go on a blind date.
In rural areas, if you want to find a partner, you still need to know some basic information about both parties, such as age, zodiac sign, personality, career income, etc.
Most parents still attach more importance to the birth date, because some rules passed down by the ancestors are also for future generations to refer to. "Husband and wife of the same sex, life changes"It's also a popular old proverb, do you know what it means? Couples of the same sex, is it a good thing or a bad thing?
In traditional Chinese culture, gender is a factor that cannot be ignored. It is not only closely related to people's character and destiny, but sometimes also affects people's married life.
While"Same-sex couples, life changes"It means that if two couples are of the same sex, then their married life will change a lot.
In ancient times, due to people's limited understanding of gender, it was generally believed that it was unlucky for husband and wife to have the same gender, which would lead to marital discord and difficult life.
So, why did the ancients have such a view? This is related to the understanding of gender stages in traditional cultures. In the view of the ancients, each gender stage has its own unique character traits and destiny directions.
For example, a Tiger is often seen as brave and decisive, but can also be overconfident and assertive; Sheep people are gentle and kind, but they may also lack initiative and are easily influenced by others.
When couples belong to the same gender, these personality traits are amplified, leading to conflicts and contradictions in life.
In addition, people at that time were convinced of these gender phases, believing that different gender phases would lead to different personality traits, and that different gender phases were the existence of the aspect principle"Husbands and wives are of the same gender, and their lives have changed dramatically"said. And so there it is"Husbands and wives are of the same sex and have very different lives"。
However, is this view scientifically sound? In modern society, with the in-depth study of gender stages and the development of psychology, we have gradually come to the conclusion that gender stages do not completely determine a person's character and destiny.
Although there may be similar personality traits between people of the same sex in some aspects, each person is a unique individual, and their personality, behavior, values, etc., are influenced by many factors such as family, upbringing, etc. Therefore, judging whether the relationship between husband and wife is harmonious based on the zodiac sign alone is obviously one-sided.
In fact, the harmony of the relationship between husband and wife depends more on communication, understanding, tolerance and respect from both parties. Regardless of whether the husband and wife are of the same sex or not, as long as they can understand each other, support each other, and respect each other, they can build a harmonious and happy family.
Conversely, without communication, understanding, and tolerance, it will be difficult to maintain a healthy marital relationship even if your zodiac signs are no longer mutually exclusive.
We should also note that there have been significant changes in the values and lifestyles of people in modern society. Many people no longer believe in the aspects of the zodiac as they did in ancient times, but pay more attention to their character, ability, and cultivation. In this case, the influence of the phase on married life has been greatly weakened.
I remember that in the past, before two people got married, they would go out of their way to find some"Fortune teller"Count your birth date and see if it is"It fits"。This sounds ridiculous today, but in the past, these things were very common.
In fact, in real life, many same-sex couples can also understand each other, support each other, respect each other, and build a harmonious and happy family.
In short,"Husbands and wives of the same sex do not have the same life"This sentence does not completely accurately reflect the relationship between gender and the relationship between husband and wife. Therefore, for those who plan to get married, they should pay more attention to whether their personality, values, and lifestyle match each other, rather than being overly superstitious about the influence of the zodiac.
Pigs and monkeys don't have heads, and white horses are afraid of green cows.
Chickens and dogs can't be together. Chickens and dogs are incompatible with each other.
The green dragon is not worthy of the white tiger, and the tiger and mouse are not worthy.
The white horse is afraid of the golden calf, and the rats and goats can't reach its head.
The snake sees the tiger like a knife file, and the pig sees the baby monkey like a spring.
The rat sees the sheep, and the ten thousand years are sad, not the white horse sees the green cow.
The tiger looks at the snake like a knife. The rabbit will not last long when he sees the dragon.
Chickens can't find dogs, pigs can't find monkeys.
Since ancient times, white horses do not follow cattle, sheep and mice go as soon as they get together.
Tips: The above is for reference only, you may wish to give it a try when eating and chatting, don't take it seriously. In short, married life depends on the joint efforts of two people.