2024 Chinese New Year Outlook Give children warmth, tolerance, hugs and love.
Bao Ma said, in fact, my life is very simple, is to take care of my two babies every day, there is no trouble, but the child is disobedient I can't control myself, and the family is in chaos and ......
When all your energy is on your child, your worries are infinitely magnified. You know, children are children, do you still want children to control their emotions rationally like us? The point is, even we don't stay mindful and positive all the time, and a lot of times, aren't we also going crazy? Aren't they just children......This is the nature of children!
There is a book called "Live Well", the author Hinohara Shigeaki, 105 years old, still remember when he was a child, made a mistake, splashed and rolled, his mother will gently say what kind of little villain this is! There was no blame, no anger, no beating and ......scoldingA good mother will affect a child's life. The most important thing is yourself. The mother is emotionally stable, and the child will feel warm, tolerant, and full of love when he grows up.
People, why are they angry? Will be angry? Because he felt powerless and at a loss for what he was facing. Therefore, he can only hide his fear and ignorance with anger. The more capable and capable people are, the more pleasant they are, which makes people feel like a spring breeze. It's a big thing, maybe someone can solve it with one **.
Children, into our family, then, give them love, respect and hugs. Be the master of your own emotions, not a slave. Starting today, you can also choose to be an emotionally stable mom and leave the ranks of those who are emotionally unstable. You have to remember that everything is up to your own choice. Take a deep breath and you can choose not to get angry.
Bao's mother said, I asked my husband to install a camera at home. Then I might be able to control my emotions. Both of my children are very well-behaved.
Installing a camera is just one way. However, it is still an external force, an external cause, and it needs to be supervised by others. If you want to be reborn in Nirvana, then look inward. I recommend two books, "The Miracle of Mindfulness" and "The First Flower", which can teach us to be aware of our own hearts, which is very effective for emotional control.
Bao Ma said, do you know how difficult it is? Nothing can be done overnight. I can only say try to change and take my time.
In Zen Buddhism, it is said that always wipe diligently, don't make dust! It's a stupid kung fu that comes slowly. At the same time, he also said - there was nothing in the first place, where to stir up dust. It's about epiphany! Did you know about epiphany? Suddenly, I felt that flowers are flowers, and things are things. I believe in the existence of epiphany, and I also believe that quantitative change can produce qualitative change. The key is, be aware and then act!