Google's wife murder case, that's very embarrassing.
Two people who were once so affectionate, so good at each other, and had very good material conditions only came to such an end in the end, one lost his life, and one person must pay the price.
It can be seen that violence is really a terrible thing.
In fact, it's not just this case, in real life, there are always many such tragedies.
There are always people who like to do things to their partners, and there are always people who suffer from it.
Either they have been living in fear and are constantly hurting, or they are really seriously injured and even lose their lives.
Violence is never advisable, when looking for a partner, if you can, of course, you should avoid it as much as possible, and a person with violent tendencies, as long as he contacts it and judges it well, it can often be seen.
Grumpy, believe in fist solving problems.
It is true that when you are with someone just now, the other party will disguise it, just show the better side.
Basically, they will deliberately express themselves and hide some of their shortcomings.
Many people will be like this, however, no matter how disguised they are, a person's nature is indelible.
In the conversation, when facing many things, you will clearly find that some people like to be reasonable and can seek common ground while reserving differences, while some people feel that their fists are the truth and like to use brute force to deal with things.
I always feel that as long as I overwhelm the other party in strength, even if I win, I can convince the other party that I am the boss, and I always think that as long as I can win you, you will be afraid, and then you will accommodate everything, and you will never dare to resist again.
Such a person, when you get along with others and with you, you will actually find his violence and his distorted beliefs.
Cognition is what it looks like, and a person with this cognition, even if he is only externally at the moment and has never done anything to you, one day, his fist will still fall on you.
Nature is that kind of person, you can endure it for a while, and as the relationship stabilizes, the little liking for you fades, and you will begin to reveal your true form, and you will no longer have so many worries, and you will no longer hold back your temper.
I don't know how to communicate, and my emotions are easily irritated.
Many people often don't know how to communicate.
People who know how to communicate, when they encounter things, will know how to speak well, through chatting, to understand each other's thoughts, and then very rationally resolve the contradictions, not moving.
Because I know the importance of communication, I can express myself and listen to others, and I can resolve a lot of emotions.
People who can't communicate at all and have no way to express themselves are easily surged out of the depression and depression in their hearts.
When a person is not very good at communicating, if the person is not gentle, but whenever he encounters things, he is prone to lose control of his emotions and become angry directly, then to a large extent, this person is often violent.
What you can't deal with by yourself can only be vented with your fists, to throw things, to smash walls, to damage glass, to hit your ears, and even to do it to you, without mercy at all.
It seems that only in this way can you get that little bit of pleasure, let your emotions go free, and let yourself be able to become calm.
But if a person is easily provoked, you have to be careful, whether it is hurting the object or yourself, it will be you who will hurt later, let you bear his anger and attack you.
If he has already started to do something to you, he doesn't have to think about it, it will only get worse, he won't stop, you can't save him, he will only make your life more embarrassing.
Strong desire for control, and a more extreme personality.
For the person you like, you will have a certain desire to control your other half, which is normal.
It's just that, normally speaking, it will be more reasonable, and there will still be a certain amount of space for each other to interact normally with the opposite sex.
In this regard, some people's desire to control is very strong, to the point of exaggeration, if you say a word to the opposite sex normally, the other party will feel that you are betraying, and if you discuss work with your colleagues, the other party will feel that you are doing something unseemly.
They will always suspect you, spy on you, track you, and even listen to your phone.
Not only that, even if you are frank and unrestrained, but whenever he thinks that you have transgressed, he will punish you, say a lot of ugly things, and have some more violent actions towards you.
It seems that love is miserable for you, but in fact, it's just a personality problem, and he will control you in particular, and he wants to make you subordinate, and he has no self at all, but everything comes according to his requirements.
Like this, his world always seems very narrow, only allowing everything to be what he wants, feeling that everything is black and white, there is no way to understand too much, and he always has a kind of idea that he can't get it, and he will be destroyed if he doesn't follow his own will.
It's more terrifying, it's also more crazy, and there is no way to correctly understand many things and face many situations.
Life partner depends on all aspects, but also on the person.
If you find that a person has violent tendencies, no matter how good the other person looks, has excellent ability, and has a great aura, you must stop it in time, and don't stay in it.
At the moment of discovery, while the feelings were not deep, he quickly chose to leave.
Don't wait until the other party has invested too much and then plan to let go.
When that day comes, the other party will not let you go easily, not because they love you so they don't want to, but they can't make you feel better.
He is not doing well, and he will not be willing to let you be good, even if he seems to be not doing well, he will not be able to bear your abandonment.
There is no way to face frustration properly, it will only directly want to destroy you and yourself.
Text: Tan Meng.
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