Ladies and gentlemen, recently in Chuzhou, Anhui Province, there was a homesick sister, she wanted to go back to her parents' house for the New Year, but she was slapped back to reality by her father-in-law. That's infuriating! What's going on here? Don't worry, listen to me slowly.
In other words, this sister Sijia has not been back to her parents' house for the New Year in two years, and she especially wants to go back to see her parents this year. As a result, at the family dinner, as soon as she mentioned the idea, she was opposed by her father-in-law, and she was slapped by her father-in-law. And said that the daughter who got married splashed out is water, how can she go back to her parents' house during the New Year! Oops, this father-in-law is really too much, the words are too much, how can he beat people? That's infuriating!
Chinese attach great importance to the meaning of the New Year, which is the most important time of the year for many people, after all, after a hard year, everyone hopes to be able to go home and reunite with their loved ones. This is also the reason why many only children finally choose to take both parents over for the New Year. After all, it's not good to favor one over the other, and if you go to one family for the New Year, the parents of the other family will have to experience the torment of loneliness.
But the situation of this sister Sijia is a bit special. As a girl who marries far away, it is indeed not easy to go back to her parents' home for the New Year. If the distance is very close, it is completely possible to "walk for the New Year", that is, both parents run over the New Year. But if the distance is too far, on the one hand, it will cost people and money, and on the other hand, it will be too late in time.
Of course, some people may think that since they are married, they should focus on their husband's family, and they should not go back to their parents' house for the New Year. This view is actually quite outdated. After all, it's the 21st century, and women have their own rights and choices. Getting married does not mean that you have to cut ties with your mother's family. What's more, such as "the water spilled by the married daughter", this view is really unacceptable.
But then again, although this sister Sijia really wants to go back to her parents' house for the New Year, she can't conflict with her father-in-law because of this. After all, they are all a family, what can't be discussed? This father-in-law is also right, and it is too much to actually beat someone because of this. The use of violence is always a manifestation of the weak and will not solve any problems.
However, this incident also reflects some problems. In modern society, although the status of women has been greatly improved, there are still some people who hold the traditional view that women should put their husband's family first after they get married. This notion is actually very outdated and should be abandoned. Women also have their own rights and choices and should not be bound by any traditional ideas.
First of all, I want to give a thumbs up to this sister Sijia! She dared to stand up to injustice and fight for her rights. However, this sister Sijia's husband is a good man with responsibility! In family disputes, he did not side with his father-in-law, but chose to side with his wife. Such a man is really rare! He refuted his father-in-law's point of view on the spot, and also packed his luggage and took Sister Sijia back to his hometown in Guizhou. It's heartwarming!
In China, a society with a strong traditional concept of filial piety, the choice of a husband seems to be a bit "unfilial". After all, he refuted his father, which may seem a bit "rebellious" to outsiders. But from the husband's point of view, he is actually faced with a helpless choice: on one side is his biological father, and on the other side is his wife.
The trade-offs are not easy. From the husband's point of view, he must also hope that the family can be harmonious, and the father and son can be harmonious. But if the relationship between husband and wife is sacrificed for the sake of superficial harmony, then the family may bury more hidden dangers. After all, although the relationship between husband and wife is not related by blood, it is the closest relationship in law. If even husband and wife cannot support, trust and respect each other, then it is difficult for the family to be truly happy.
So, this husband's choice is actually a wise move. He did not ignore his father's vexatious trouble, but chose to side with his wife. Such an approach not only preserves the relationship between husband and wife, but also avoids further intensification of family conflicts. Such a man deserves praise!
I hope that the couple can live happily and happily in the days to come! I also hope that each of us can work hard for our rights and dignity!