Oops! On the topic of marriage, it really makes people feel palpitations and can't stop, and every family has a scripture that is difficult to read. We often say "one day husband and wife for one hundred days", but, in the final analysis, the couple is actually like two little birds in the same forest, if the sky is falling apart, I am afraid they have to flap their wings and flee for their lives. This thing sounds a little cold-blooded, and it also makes people feel endlessly sad! However, please listen up, this feeling is not my own, but from a friend's own experience. This is a real thing happening around us!
I remember last time, my buddy who had breast cancer came to talk to me about the life-and-death moment between the two of them. At that time, she was like being thrown into an ice cellar, and from the moment she got the diagnosis certificate issued by the hospital, she and her husband were stunned for a full month without daring to mention any heavy topics. Oops, it's so sad to think about! The relationship between the two of them is almost covered by a glass cover, as long as the glass cover falls, all the beautiful illusions will be shattered, making people dizzy and at a loss.
There are only two ways to deal with this disease, either to surgically remove both breasts, or to follow the fate. But no matter which option you choose, you will have to face all kinds of misfortunes in the future. In the face of such bad news, who can calmly look at it? The man was silent, but he knew in his heart that this must be an unacceptable reality. Tell your wife what is in your heart, I'm afraid she will be sad; Don't tell her, I'm aggrieved again. We often say, "Don't be angry, no one will heal your body when you are angry", and only after you get sick can you really understand the weight of these words.
At this moment, a financial writer Ye Tan's ** suddenly appeared on the Internet, looking at the ** in which she said the real situation of being cornered, my buddy couldn't hold back her tears anymore, hid in the room alone, and cried happily.
Ye Tan, a lady who also suffers from breast cancer, revealed a shocking fact in **: nearly forty percent of women have been abandoned by their husbands after being diagnosed with cancer, some are divorced directly, and some are indirect betrayal. Those lucky people who endure their grief and grit their teeth and persist in life, among them are very few who are really living as before.
Ye Tan said on the show: "I have calmed the anger in my heart ......This kind of thing is unacceptable to anyone. Some husbands have told me directly, 'I will choose not to divorce, but I can't guarantee that I won't talk to other women.'" Hearing this, my buddy couldn't help but curse in his heart: "Beasts are not as good!" ”