Text丨The West Chamber is affectionate.
Time is not long, may you meet in my words before it is too late!
There is such a saying - the favored one has no fear, no matter what kind of relationship it is, the favored person will have no fear.
It can be seen that in a relationship, it is important to be favored. In other words, preference is the degree to which a person loves you, especially in love.
There will be many friends, but there will only be one lover. Therefore, in love, preference is the only one, which others do not have.
If a man can't do it to favor you, then he must not love you enough. A man who truly loves you to the bone, he will definitely regard you as a treasure.
And in his eyes, you are also completely different from other members of the opposite sex, you are special, irreplaceable, and the only existence.
However, in real life, there are many women who can't tell whether they prefer it or not.
Often, some women are confused by some sweet words, gifts, and courtesies from men, thinking that this is preference.
For example, if the other party says a few words of hush and warmth, you think that he is different from you. In fact, he can shush any person of the opposite sex.
To truly favor a person is to give her privileges, to break principles for her, and to accept all perfections and imperfections.
And all of this requires action, not just words.
So, as a woman, you have to know that men favor you and will give you these 4 privileges, obviously:
Take care of you and pay attention to details
If a man is partial to you, then he will take care of you and pay great attention to details. Enjoying his special care is the privilege he gives you.
The person who really cares about you will remember your preferences, care about your experience, and will make you feel as comfortable and relaxed as possible.
He will change his old grin, informal, and care for you everywhere and do his best.
For example, when you go out to play, he will take care of all kinds of supplies for you, such as snacks, slippers, towels, medicines, etc.
For another example, when he is with you, he will be full of vigilance, and once he perceives danger, he will immediately burst into strength, like when you don't notice the oncoming **, he will block in front of you.
And once he is alone, or with other people, he will return to his original appearance, and he will not be so intimate and attentive.
Give you a sense of security and dispel suspicions
A man who favors you, he will give you this privilege, that is, the privilege of suspicion of him, and he will immediately dispel your suspicions and give you a sense of security.
If a man really loves you, then he will definitely be reluctant to make you sad and sad, and he will care about your feelings very much.
On the other hand, if a man doesn't care about your feelings at all, then he must not love you.
You will find that when you feel uneasy and doubtful, he will immediately explain to you and give you the answer you want, for fear of delaying for a second and causing you to misunderstand.
When you quarrel with each other, he will always bow his head to you first and admit his mistakes, and will not let you fall asleep with a sad mood or lose sleep all night.
You have to understand that the people who love you will take care of your sensitivity, and the people who don't love you will only think that you are being vexatious.
Introduce yourself thoroughly and be honest with each other
Giving you the privilege of getting to know him in all respects and understanding him is also a proof of a man's preference for you. As the saying goes, to look at a person you have to learn to look at his lowest point to see if you can accept it.
And a man who loves you very much, he will introduce himself to you comprehensively, be honest with you, and take the initiative to show you his lowest place.
He will tell you everything about his financial situation, let you manage the money, and is willing to spend money for you.
He will share his family situation, circle of friends, and emotional experiences with you, and introduce you to the people around him.
In front of you, he will also show his truest side, without deliberately pretending, he will be the same before and after.
Accept your willfulness and pay for you
What is preference? Preference means that no matter what you do, he will always love and spoil you.
If a man favors you, then he will accept your willfulness and give you the privilege of willfulness and freedom to pay for you.
You are free to be yourself, and he will take care of everything for you. You probably have a feeling of "you have peace of mind with him".
For example, when you are criticized by others, whether that person is his friend or family member, he will stand up for you and protect you, instead of sitting back and turning a deaf ear.
You can do what you want, you can also lose your temper at him from time to time, and he will always support you, which is preference.
If a man has a preference for you, it must be obvious. As the saying goes, if you're around a flame, how can you not feel warm?
In fact, there is no sand in love, true and false, false and true, you can see it with a little care and soberness.
The real preference is something that everyone else can see. is like Lin Yiyang and Yin Guo in the TV series "In the Blizzard", Lin Yiyang's preference for Yin Guo is well known.
For example, when Yin Guo and Lin Yiyang's junior sister met, he would immediately call his brother because he was afraid that she would think too much, and asked his brother to appear immediately to introduce her, and he kept explaining and expressing his mind on his mobile phone.
Because he loves her enough, he doesn't want her to be the slightest bit unhappy, and he will give her enough security to do so, even if she doesn't say it.
Therefore, you should be soberly aware that the privilege given by a man is proof that he loves you!