How much does it cost to marry a daughter in law? The great and ordinary Sun Yuhou did it

Mondo Social Updated on 2024-02-01

In "Ordinary World", the panicked Sun Yuhou married his younger brother Sun Yuting and married a daughter-in-law once. I married a daughter-in-law for my son Sun Shao'an, and every time I married my own down-and-out family, it became even more shabby, how much did it cost to marry, and I was worried about the croppers?

Sun Yuhou is an understanding farmer, knowing that his family has suffered all his life because he has no education and does not know how to read, and he has been blind all his life, and in order to change his fate, he has to provide a student when he is hungry.

There is a paralyzed old mother in the family, and there are four children waiting to be fed, and there is also a younger brother to go to school. After graduating, he became a worker and ate white **. In 1960, during the most difficult period in the country, my younger brother suddenly returned home and said that he wanted to marry a daughter-in-law, and he should not be a broken worker, and he could not afford to buy a bag of radishes with his monthly salary. Sun Yuhou said that his younger brother was so determined that he didn't go back to work, saying that he was 26 years old and would be a bachelor for the rest of his life if he didn't marry his daughter-in-law, and he often cried in front of his old mother.

Sun Yuhou knows that his life's hard work is in vain, and all the efforts in the past will be in vain, just like the crops you have worked hard for a season are suddenly lost by hail, can you regret the past because of the arrival of hail?

In order to give his younger brother Zhang Luo's daughter-in-law, Sun Yuhou wrote a letter to his best friend asking the other party to introduce his daughter-in-law to his younger brother. His family borrowed to live in Jinbo's house, and left his family's ancestral house to his younger brother without reservation. Borrowed money and food, leaving behind a bad debt on the riverbank.

For many years, Sun Yuhou and his son Sun Shaoan carried a tent on their backs, and the father and son helped them pay off the accounts, moved out of Jinbo's house, and laid a cave. I can no longer afford to dig a cave for my son alone, marry a wife and have children.

The eldest daughter married a second-rate husband, Sun Yuhou couldn't ignore it, and his niece basically ate at Sun Yuhou's house all year round, and the family's economy was even tighter. The second son is in high school, eats the worst black **, can't eat enough, wears tatters and is looked down upon by classmates, the second daughter is in junior high school, and is also a reading material, the first in the grade every year, even if the whole family can't eat and drink, Sun Yuhou's psychology is still very gratified that his four children all have love and help, positive life, like a morning glory growing against the wind, as long as there is the sun, they will work tenaciously and move towards their goals, even if they are not very clear in their hearts what the goal is, But at the very least, you have to eat well.

In such a situation, Shao'an has been home to work for ten years, helping his father's love to support this swaying home in the wind, and he is 23 years old. The parents didn't sleep all night thinking about Shao'an's marriage, and it was uncomfortable to see that other children of the same age in the village were married and had children, and their son was still alone. Although Sun Yuhou's youth and vigor no longer exist, he still wants to marry another daughter-in-law for the happiness of his son.

Sun Yuhou found his younger brother to help Zhang Luo's daughter-in-law, and the younger brother said that the key is that as long as the bride price is in place, Shao'an will not worry about marrying a daughter-in-law. Shao'an is tough and handsome, young and promising, and has won the hearts of the people, and he is unanimously elected as a pair of captains every year. At the age of 23, the village secretary does not dare to underestimate him, and he is terrible in the future.

When the younger brother-in-law heard that Shao'an was going to marry a daughter-in-law, she knew that her mother's family had a relative who didn't want a bride price, so she immediately enthusiastically helped matchmaking. Shao'an took leave and went to Liulin Town to meet this daughter-in-law who didn't want a bride price in person.

It's just that the family is such a mess, and I'm afraid that my daughter-in-law will have to borrow a lot of external accounts. Sun Yuhou and his wife are one hundred and one satisfied with their future daughter-in-law, in order to borrow money and borrow grain, the old couple calculated overnight to analyze the people in the village who have surplus food and money one by one, the relationship is far away and can't be opened, and there are people who have been ** by the two people of Yuting, and they have lost hope. In the end, he aimed at Runsheng's family, Runsheng's father was a car driver, and the family's economy was one of the best in the village, and Sun Yuhou's family also had demands. Knowing that Shao'an was going to marry a daughter-in-law, Runsheng and his father took the initiative to ask Sun Yuhou what difficulties he had, and whether it was enough to lend him 200 yuan? Sun Yuhou was also embarrassed that he didn't know how to speak. The other party has solved the difficulties in front of him for himself, and he has also reduced the embarrassment for himself.

Shao'an borrowed food from the team, and the team borrowed accommodation, and the wedding was almost ready. Poor peasants have no surplus grain or money in their hands, and when something happens, they just need to borrow, borrow, and then use their whole life to repay it. Things can be borrowed and exchanged, and the more you borrow in a lifetime, you will never be able to pay it back. Most of the people in the village helped each other through the most difficult days, and their feelings became closer and closer.

"Ordinary World".While showing the difficult survival situation of ordinary little people, this ** strives to write their beautiful hearts and perseverance in overcoming difficulties。The protagonists of the work, Sun Shao'an and Sun Shaoping, are young people struggling on the poverty line, but they are constantly striving for self-improvement, relying on their tenacious perseverance to fight against fate and pursue their own moral perfection.

This book is like a magnificent epic, condensing the majestic social symphony, broad human mind, brilliant life color and rich and solid suffering heritage, the thick and solid life suffering of the older generation, the romantic and magnificent life imagination and vigorous action ability of young people, and the life thinking obtained from life, which has achieved such a magnificent and majestic text like the Loess Plateau and the magnificent and majestic river.

The protagonist Sun Shaoping is a poor rural youth, but he is also a knowledgeable rural youth. Be pragmatic and have the courage to follow the call of the spirit. Whether it is the high school life of eating sorghum buns and drinking leftover vegetable soup, or the life of a farmer who works in the field, or even the life of a part-time worker after leaving the land, Sun Shaoping has a high-spirited arrogance and a reserved soul, and has experienced all kinds of hardships that ordinary people cannot imagine, and he has grown up in suffering.

Every kind of suffering is so tormenting, Sun Shaoping not only does not avoid them, but takes the initiative to go to them. This poor boy has gained valuable spiritual values, worries about the world, and is self-reliant. At every stage of his growth and growth, the advice he received came from books, which broadened his horizons and his suffering.

Just like the author Lu Yao said,Ordinary world, ordinary people, ordinary life. We can't get lost in the ordinary life, behind the ordinary there is passion, the ideological is willing to be mediocre, and the person who is content with the status quo in life is the real ordinary. The meaning of life lies in the fact that you can create the beauty and wonder of this process, and the value of life lies in the fact that you can calmly and excitedly appreciate the beauty and tragedy of this process. Believe in yourself, ordinary you can create an extraordinary life in an ordinary world.

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