Perhaps 99% of the world's jobs are proficiency issues. In addition to front-end research, this thing is really a test of IQ and understanding.
Many jobs, as long as there is a work entry foundation, relevant resources and platforms, even pigs can be competent. Still, let's not define ourselves casually, practice more routines, constantly optimize our brains, accumulate advantages, and there will always be a day when we take off.
Reality clearly tells us that if everyone is doing something, it is impossible for you to succeed, like a motionless highway during the holidays.
What's worse is that you say different things and do different things, which will make many people extremely uncomfortable, and everyone who wants to take the ordinary road will not have a small obstacle in front of them.
We are not obligated to preach to anyone.
In fact, finding the answer is equivalent to letting others make decisions for you, and you give up the right to choose for yourself.
If you are looking for answers in order to gain the teacher's approval, then your horizons will be limited by the teacher's level.
In order to find answers in order to be recognized by society, then society will build a high wall around you.
I would like to share with you a magical law of the universe: no matter how small a thing is beneficial to others, as long as you can complete it with a harmonious mind, happy and relaxed mind, as long as you can make it unique in style and quality, as long as you can achieve it to the extent of causing qualitative change, then your life will be surprised, show good luck, and have miracles because of this small thing that is beneficial to him.
The same goes for making money. To make money is to focus on getting things done, but what methods and ways to use need to be adapted to the time, local conditions, and different people. Set the goal, and the process can be flexibly adjusted.
People must not lose the ability to be flexible, otherwise concentration will easily become an obsession. Don't underestimate this obsession, it can easily consume ten years of your life and turn it into futile years that you don't want to look back on.
People who really know how to be flexible don't like to grasp others, they only pay attention to themselves, polish and train themselves, and don't spend their minds on studying others. As the level of internal needs increases, with self-knowledge, external people and things will naturally be dealt with well.
People who really know how to be flexible don't need to learn, don't need to calculate, and don't need to deliberately use technical means. It's like big business owners never play tricks.
Truthfulness, simplicity, and ingenuity can carry greater causes and blessings.
People who truly know how to be flexible will not play tricks, but use ideas, concepts, pursuits and values to infect the people around them.
Living in only one environment, you don't see your own limitations. It is only when the fish jump out of the water that they find themselves living in the water.
Including attitudes towards parents.
My advice is not to decide on the life of your parents, they also have their own life themes to complete. Many people don't divorce after arguing all their lives, and there is naturally a reason not to leave, so don't worry about it if your persuasion is fruitless.
If all relationships want to get along, we should do three things: non-interference. If you can't even control yourself and always want to point fingers at others, then you will only increase your troubles.
If you think your parents are pig teammates, don't listen to them. In addition to constantly improving our ability to become financially independent, we should also seek out as many mentors and friends as we can ourselves.
Cherish all those who can give you advice for a better life, and keep your heart growing savagely. Don't be soft on your parents, violent communication is sometimes necessary.
The so-called interesting soul is actually a person whose information density and knowledge level are much higher than that of another person, who is willing to bend down, listen to your nonsense, communicate with you, and put forward some opinions that you have not heard of, subverting your short-term imagination and three views. Half of the interesting soul is knowledge, and the other half is the cultivation that supports your character.
Everyone is an individual. Before you become strong, you should think about how to break free from bondage, not how to reconcile. If you can't reconcile, you don't have to. Just keep your distance. There is no love, there is no reciprocal love, it is not a freedom. Everything that is missing from the family must be made up for by yourself.
Respect the trajectory of each person's life.
If you want to escape the underlying destiny of life, you have to evolve yourself like crazy. The past self, whether it is knowledge, life experience, personal qualities, mental toughness, or social resources, cannot support oneself to move towards a higher energy life.
Therefore, without crazy self-purification, it is difficult to break through barriers and obstacles, resulting in a lot of inefficient and ineffective struggles, and life just circulates in place.
Many people think that anchors on the Internet are gold diggers, but in fact, the anchor's monthly income of more than 100,000 is only 04%, it's the same for any industry. If you want a monthly personal income of 100,000, you need to work hard to become the head.
If China can really get ahead, the biggest business in the next few decades will be to sell lifestyles, including food, clothing, entertainment, consumer goods, art, aesthetics, vocabulary, concepts, values, ways of thinking, etc., with unlimited value potential.
People are accustomed to calling those who give them money and material help benefactors, and those who support their careers nobles. For those wise people who break their own cognition, improve their own dimensions, so as to avoid risks, and change their fate, they are always regarded as neurotics.
Is human nature inherently good or evil? What is really simple is that the children of the middle class and the rich family, who have been well protected since childhood and have never been exposed to the dark side of society. Ordinary people are the least contractual.
Finally, I would like to encourage you in three sentences.
First, we don't need to prove ourselves to anyone.
Second, "it's about your" and "it's about me".
Third, apathy can solve 80% of life's problems.
Comprehend well, hoping to give you strength when you are confused.