Are there many good or bad people in the world? This is a very controversial issue.
Some people say that there must be a lot of good people! Everyone has a conscience, the so-called evil cannot suppress the right, when the justice in the world has the upper hand, can the spread of evil be suppressed! Isn't that how TV series act?
Some people also say that there must be a lot of bad people! If it's not good for us, it's a bad person, and now people have long lost their innocence, innocent, kind and simple people are often hurt the most, social reality, people's hearts are too complicated!
In fact, this so-called definition of good and bad is aimed at oneself, those who have interests in themselves are good people, and those who harm their own interests are bad people.
From the child's point of view, the father is strict with the child, and the child will think that the father is bad. The mother dotes on the child, and the child will think that the mother is better.
Since you were a child, the teacher has taught you well, you have to study hard and complete your homework on time, in the teacher's heart! She is for your good, but in your heart, she thinks that the teacher is not good, and always asks you to do things that you don't like to do.
When you go to work, you always think that the boss is very good, let you do everything, and let you work overtime, the boss is very bad and bad.
These are just thinking from your own point of view, but have you considered the other side?
The teacher asks you to read and study, in fact, it is for your own good, and the knowledge you learn is for yourself, and no one can take it away, it is in your own head. The boss asks you to do things, many things you can't do, with ability and technology, with your own value, do everything well, the boss is also unwilling to give up talents.
So! I am good to a person, I am very good to him, or I am very good to many people, I always think that I am a good person, but I am not doing well, only by knowing human nature, only by recognizing the truth of society, can I love life.
Your so-called digging out of your heart and lungs is actually not really good to this person, your so-called good, but it only helps this person to get used to your goodness, and after a long time, this so-called good becomes a matter of course. And if you don't do his psychology a little, he will start to accuse you, you feel that you are very good to people, in fact, you are harming others, because of your goodness, making a person very selfish, lazy, and ungrateful.
In turn, the boss scolds you all day and educates you all day long. Many people feel very unhappy, and then you feel that everything is not going well, this kind of environment, you have achieved you, your heart has become stronger, the more frustrated you are, the more courageous, and promote your spirit of self-improvement, you feel that everything in life has become very beautiful!
The teacher educates the child, the child subjectively thinks that the teacher is really troubled and bad, and the teacher subjectively breaks his heart for the child's education, and he pays sincerely, and he thinks it is really good.
This society is full of holes, but there are always people who are mending it, and kind people are still warming the world. Yes! Human nature is bad, but people are lovely. So if we want to open up the pattern, we must first understand human nature, what is human nature? Selfish. When a thing does not involve interests, most people are very good, if it involves their own interests, then many people are very bad and bad. Then the person who is good to you, you should cherish it, because this is not what he should do.
You should remember and be grateful for the kindness that others have done to you. But some people are more simple and naïve, he thinks that others should be good to him as a matter of course, this concept is wrong, he will think that he owes him, it is this society that is unfair to him, and heaven is unfair. This phrase is appropriate at all times, love, friendship, and affection. Including anyone, these people who don't know how to communicate and don't know how to behave in the world are all because of naivety.
The reason why people have conflicts is because he thinks he is good to you, but he thinks he is good to you, and there are misunderstandings on both sides. Some people have a relatively large pattern and sacrifice their own interests, and when others are good, they will suffer a loss, and others still take it for granted and think that they are still at a loss.
We must open up the pattern. Human nature must be bad, but people are very kind, this world is very beautiful, but the heart of defense is indispensable, everything is interest-oriented.