People tooFang knows that there are three lines between hands and feet, and if you cross the line, you will pretend to be confused.
In a family with many children, the parents are the nucleus and glue of the family, and when they leave, the family becomes fragmented and lacks cohesion. Cao Zhi's poem "It is born from the same root, why is it too anxious to fry each other" reminds us to avoid fights and contradictions between brothers.
As people grow older, at the age of 60, they have experienced the vicissitudes of the world and the ups and downs of life, and they understand the importance of brotherhood better. At this time, we should respect each other's boundaries and learn to pretend to be confused even when we encounter difficulties, in order to maintain the harmony and stability of the family.
Dear relatives and friends, please do not interfere in the marriage of siblings and children. Everyone has their own life, and we just need to focus on our family. The story of Aunt Lei is the best example, she interfered too much in her son's marriage, and as a result, his son ran away from home and lost contact with her completely.
Instead of using violence or coercion to solve problems, we should respect everyone's choices and give them enough space and support. Let's respect the privacy of our families and enjoy our lives together.
Don't try to win over friends and family to invest in the business, if you succeed, they will become your relatives, and if you fail, you will become enemies. Investment itself is risky, the development of the industry can also change, once you make money, reinvest, the situation changes, you may lose nothing.
My friend Xiaoyue has worked in a ** company for many years, and has made a lot of money with her business acumen and judgment. After retiring, she invested in entities and invested in a vocational education and training institution, which reaped good returns.
So she shared the good news with her two sisters, suggesting that they take out the money from the bank and invest it in the entity to make more profits. The two sisters were very excited after hearing this, and did not hesitate to hand over 1 million to Xiaoyue.
However, the policy of the education and training industry changed rapidly, Xiaoyue's investment failed, and the money of the two sisters was also lost. The eldest sister was so badly hit that she even fainted and was admitted to the hospital.
The brother-in-law angrily demanded that Xiaoyue compensate his wife, and the second sister also regretted it and took her son to Xiaoyue's house all day long**. The three sisters, who were originally close, are now arguing like enemies.
This kind of situation where friends and family turn against each other due to investment failure reminds us that kinship cannot be destroyed by money and profit. We should maintain a calm kinship relationship and avoid hurting family affection because of money.
Maintain a sense of proportion, family affection can be better Among relatives and friends, a sense of proportion is a very important art. No matter how intimate the relationship is, you need to take care to keep a proper distance so as not to bother and trouble the other person.
Poor handling can even lead to relationship breakdown. For example, Ren Xiaorong is a good example. She sacrificed her time and energy to take care of her family.
However, she didn't realize that her actions had gone beyond the boundaries and made others feel uncomfortable and stressed. In the end, instead of being grateful, she was ostracized by her family and friends.
Therefore, we should learn to respect the space and independence of others and not interfere in other people's affairs easily. At the same time, we should also express our feelings and needs in a timely manner to avoid bogging down the relationship.
Only by maintaining a proper sense of proportion can family relations be more beautiful.
From a psychological point of view, everyone desires to be in control of their own lives, and they may choose to keep their own opinions about their parents, even if they are in charge of their opinions.
Therefore, as a peer, if you interfere in the private affairs of your brothers and sisters, you are "stepping on thunder". The relationship between brothers and sisters is not about how good you are to others, but about the three bottom lines that everyone needs to abide by and cannot be crossed.
Once you touch these bottom lines, pretend you don't know. Only by maintaining a certain degree of tacit understanding and respect can the brotherhood continue to deepen.