Title: The Balance of Money and Love: From the Incident Itself to the Concept of Marriage.
In today's materialistic society, we are often deceived by appearances, even in the sacred realm of love. As you can see, a young man made a marriage with 700,000 cash, and this news has attracted heated discussions from all walks of life. It's worth pondering, what does this mean exactly? Can a marriage only be built with money? With these questions in mind, let's start at the root and explore how money plays an important role in marriage and how to build a healthy and happy marriage.
First, financial security is the cornerstone of marital stability. As we often hear, "poor and lowly couples mourn everything". In the young man's case, he was willing to give 100,000 yuan as a gift for the first meeting and 600,000 yuan as a bride price as a way to show respect for the woman and her family. Obviously, this old-fashioned gift demonstrates the young man's financial prowess, which is a necessary element that many are well known for. However, does this mean that money can solve all problems and achieve a perfect marriage?
This is not the case. Studies have shown that very wealthy couples have a higher divorce rate than the general population. The reason is that in the early stage of marriage, the sense of security brought by money may lead to two different directions: one is that both parties are overly dependent on the stability brought by money, ignoring or diluting the communication between each other; The other is to test the other party through money and see if they feel that it is worthwhile to connect with money. Therefore, money is really only a part of the marriage, not the whole thing.
Next, wealth is only one element of the foundation of a marriage, but it is not the decisive factor. What is more important is mutual respect, understanding and tolerance between couples. As in the example of this young man, although he showed sincerity in his marriage, did he genuinely understand the woman's thoughts? Did he really want to spend the rest of his life with her? Guess these are all questions he needs to think about and answer. If you want to have the ideal marriage, the investment of money alone is not a long-term solution.
In addition, we should also recognize that the pursuit of material satisfaction is accompanied by the need to take into account spiritual needs. Just as in nature, although there is sunshine and rain, but there is no flower, the scenery cannot be achieved, in the process of choosing another partner, inner feelings and personality characteristics are the most important criteria to consider. As some celebrities have said, a marriage full of love and friendship is the strongest wealth. Let both parties have their own independent space, and "love each other" is the secret of a long-lasting marriage.
Finally, let's return to the young man. Although his actions showed the world that he respected and cared for weddings, we should not ignore the potential harms that may arise from this, because marriages built on money alone may be far less stable than they should be.
In short, in today's materialistic society, we should protect.