Have you noticed such a strange phenomenon? Regardless of gender, once students come out of the countryside to study at university, they seem to be reluctant to return to the countryside after graduation. Some even asked their parents to help them buy a garage in the city and put down roots in the big city. Even if their parents can't afford it, they will choose to rent a house on their own, get a limited monthly salary, and choose to stay in the city without hesitation, even if they are living on their own. At the same time, those who drop out of school and integrate early, even if they get good jobs in the cities, tend to return to the countryside to build houses, get married, spend time with their parents, or often go back to see their families.
There are some deep reasons behind this phenomenon. Perhaps, this is because those college students who come out of the countryside have experienced a wider world in the city and seen more opportunities and possibilities. They have developed a strong interest in the bustling and multicultural culture of the city, and are eager to have more room for development in such an environment. Even if they can't find their dream job, they would rather work hard in the city than return to the countryside.
On the contrary, those who drop out of school early to work may cherish the tranquility of the countryside and the local atmosphere of their hometown. They built houses in the countryside, got married, reunited with their families, and enjoyed a simple and warm life. For them, the countryside is the root, the sustenance of emotion, and the source of life. Even if they wander around the city, they still can't let go of their nostalgia for their hometown and their concern for their parents.
Perhaps, behind this is also a different understanding of the concept of life. Those college students may be more rational and see that they can chase more dreams and opportunities in the city; People who enter society early are more emotionally and family-oriented, and they are willing to focus their lives on getting along with their families.