Among the people who have been laid off in the real estate industry, there is a special group, who neither returned to the real estate for reemployment after being laid off, nor did they change careers to find jobs in other industries, but chose to stay at home full-time, take care of their babies and do a good job in logistics services.
The story of this group is also worth paying attention to and understanding, and today we will tell three real cases:Real estate person A (former investment post, 31 years old).I was resigned from the real estate industry at the end of 2021, and that year was the year when the real estate industry cut the most investment positions, because many real estate companies did not take land, and what investment jobs did they need. After the Spring Festival in 2022, my resume for half a year was lost, and I could only stay at home to be a full-time dad.
I used to be too busy at work, and I always felt that I had too little time to take care of my children, so now it can be regarded as a kind of compensation. The more time you spend with her, the more feedback she will give you. But it's really trivial to take care of children, before the work was an 8, now with a child is 8 1, and you can't take away God, otherwise the child bumps or something. I used to go to work and still be able to fish, or find a reason to go out, and I didn't have time to take care of my children. My parents are quite open-minded, because the child's mother has a good job income, and I can't work for a long time, and my parents gradually agree to me taking care of the child at home. They haven't retired yet, they have their own jobs to be busy, and there must be someone to take care of the children, and they can only rely on me.
How so? After all, I graduated from graduate school and was in the prime of life, so I should focus on my career. I was thinking that when my children went to elementary school, my parents would retire to help take care of them, and I would have to find another job. Real estate person B (former operator, 33 years old).I was dismissed in mid-2022, I worked in a state-owned enterprise before I left, and I went to a state-owned enterprise in 2021 from a real estate company. After being laid off from a state-owned enterprise, he could no longer find a suitable job, and gradually began to accept the reality of taking care of children at home.
The hardest thing is that my parents and parents-in-law are against me taking care of the children at home, even now, even if we both think it's okay. Because of this, there are some conflicts at home, and they often come to help take care of the children before, but now I can only bring them myself.
It's hard to get your mindset right. Even now, more than a year has passed, and it is still difficult for me to correct my mentality, after all, I have seen various real estate groups, the circle of friends of my peers, and my work habits for many years. But seeing the child's various happy moments, I feel very **, and it doesn't seem so difficult to accept.
At this stage, the most difficult thing to do with children is all kinds of pressure after going to kindergarten, and economic pressure is the first. There are all kinds of extra things, and none of the task notifications in the class group dare to miss them, and they are nervous when they see the news. There are also a variety of manual homework, after-school activities, offline training, etc., which are more tiring than work.
Real estate person C (former planner, 35 years old).I was laid off from a state-owned enterprise at the beginning of this year, and then I couldn't find a job for several months, and then gradually gave up.
Because the child was just born this year, I was unemployed when I was born, and I spent more time with the child, and my wife went to work after the maternity leave was completed, and the child naturally came to my shoulders. When I took my children, I found that the housework at home was really trivial, because I had a slight habit of cleanliness, and I couldn't finish all kinds of hygiene work as long as I wanted to. Because I was planning before, I was so busy with work that I didn't have much time to calm down and experience life, and now it can be regarded as a kind of filling gap before. Of course, although I spend all my time with my baby, I haven't completely left my job. My friend's company is engaged in activities or something, and sometimes I need someone to write a plan, so I write some plans or something part-time, and I have an income of about 2,000 a month. Thinking of this, it is still not so difficult to accept psychologically, after all, his professional skills have not been lost.
In the real experience of the above three real estate people, we found that people who are at home full-time still do not want to lose their original jobs, and if there is a part-time opportunity, everyone is the most happy. This group is the most concerned about some business opportunities, and all kinds of part-time jobs are willing to try.