In order to give Yang Ruoxi, who is in love with the play, a name.
"Tough Guy" actor Lian Yiming insisted on divorcing his wife Chen Shi (later renamed Chen Jiayan), who had saved him in the fire.
If you don't want the custody of your daughter, you can leave the house, and you can bear the bad name of "abandoning your wife and daughter".
He just wants to form a new family with Yang Ruoxi and welcome the new happiness in his heart.
Is it that the warm marriage has gradually become dull in the long river of time?
Or is the relationship between Yang Ruoxi and Lian Yiming really strong enough to ignore everything?
Many viewers praised the maid "Shen'er" in "Kangxi Weifu Private Interview" for her beauty and aura.
But as soon as this incident was exposed,The comment "Beauty is not a ** that corrupts morality" that everyone praised made Yang Ruoxi have to retire after marriage.
From singing opera to going to Hong Kong to work hard, from a martial arts instructor to a popular star.
Maybe even Yiming himself didn't expect that decades of dedication and hard work would be completely ruined by a divorce.
With her daughter to be strong alone, Chen Jiayan got back on her feet in the film and television industry after throwing off all the confinement.
The heroine who originally slowed down her career for love is booming again, and she has done her job as an actor and host.
After 13 years of divorce, his ex-wife is popular and his ex-husband is confused.
Looking at Lian Yiming's experience, you will have a deep understanding of "some love can be chased, and some love can't be chased", ...... will be deeply understood
01 Lay a solid foundation for singing
Born in Beijing in 1972, he was influenced by his carpenter's father's hobby of Peking Opera.
Lian Yiming (formerly known as Lian Lian) listened to the lyrics of "The banner is in the sky, it turned out to be a soldier sent by Sima" when he was very young.
It can also sing "Listening to his words scares my heart (which) is frightened" to taste.
Such a gifted child made the father of a Peking Opera enthusiast happy, and immediately took out his savings to send him to learn opera.
From snacking on the hardships that his peers have never tasted, from singing and chanting to playing to his hands, eyes and body steps.
The more bitter you are, the more you love, the more you love, the more you learn, Lian Yiming is never perfunctory about Peking Opera.
Competing in various competitions of children's Peking Opera, the awards he won are his best confidence.
At the age of 12, he confidently applied for the China Theatre Academy.
Before he could show himself, Lian Yiming was brushed off because he was not old enough.
In 1985, the 13-year-old boy and his father felt that there must be no problem.
can be excellent in art, on the physical examination list".Short-sighted and discoloredThe unqualified made even the father and son not believe it.
After approaching the school to ask for a re-examination, Lian's father went back and forth between the school and the Education Bureau many times after being refused.
In the morning, I asked the teachers and leaders to check again, and in the afternoon, I went to the Education Bureau to report that the school had made an error.
After tossing like this for nearly a month, Lian's father's waist collapsed, but fortunately, the place where his son was replaced by others came back.
solemnly assured his father that he would study hard and never disappoint his family's cultivation and expectations.
Lian Yiming became the most active and hardworking one in the undergraduate class of the Academy of Drama.
Taking singing as a way to persist in this life, he silently thought that he wanted to stand on the stage and sing his favorite play for his father.
systemI have been learning for 7 years to shelf face and copper hammer faceLian Yiming graduated in 1992.
Knock on the door of the National Peking Opera Company with excellent results.
I thought I would show my talents, but I didn't expect that his height of more than 1.8 meters made it difficult for him to play with others.
's not-so-dominant voice made him sit on the cold bench two months after he arrived in the regiment.
His position on the stage is getting further and lower, and even if he is very good, he doesn't have many opportunities to play.
stayed backstage to do chores, dressed up for other actors, and the role of the dragon gradually broke Lian Yiming's heart.
So in the sad eyes of his father, he decided to give up opera, and he wanted to find another way to become famous.
02 went south and north to become famous
It just so happened that this year, "star" Jet Li went to Beijing to shoot the movie "Once Upon a Time".
Lian Yiming, who has outstanding martial arts skills in Peking Opera, applied for a role in the play.
I think I can do what they do, I'm not bad at all. I can't be too tall in singing, I always have to be a taller actor in acting, and I heard that I can find someone to dub after the performance, so my confidence came. ”
wants to become a martial arts star, break into the film and television industry, and don't let your skills go to waste.
Lian Yiming immediately went south to Hong Kong to join the artist training course run by the Xiang brothers' Yongsheng Film Company.
If you want to act, you must first be able to act. For the next 4 years, I studied and acted at the same time.
There are a lot of small characters who have run away, and the fame of martial arts stand-ins and martial arts instructors is getting louder and louder.
The height of Wu Xing's substitutes is not very high, and I have become a sweet spot in the eyes of directors
Fortunately, he was seen by director Wang Jing, and in 1994, Lian Yiming got a small role in the movie "God of Gamblers 2".
Although he also starred in films such as "Brave Little Fist Boy" and "Blue Love", it has always been tepid.
Thinking that it would not be a matter after all, in 1995 he bid farewell to his original company and switched to the TVB artist training class.
did not lose his job as a martial arts instructor, and even Yiming honed his acting skills in dramas such as "Fatal Love" and "Kyoto Detective".
And in 2000, he heard a friend complain that "we 'outsiders' are not as good as local stars." You see that you obviously don't have anything wrong, but you don't have filming, this is the reality
Stung by the "regional difference", he gave up everything ruthlessly, and Lian Yiming returned to the mainland to sign a contract with Hairun Film and Television.
It's not the same when you change places.
In 2001, Lian Yiming served as the executive director and martial arts instructor in "Hero Zheng Chenggong".
At the same time, he also participated in the film and played with the smash hit Zhao Wenzhuo.
Just finished acting here, and over there he took Chen Tingwei to play "Li Wei" in "National Hero Zheng Chenggong", and was an action director.
Later, he appeared in CCTV's "Western Sky", and Lian Yiming finally became a little famous.
A good start is more important than anything else.
Lian Yiming, who plans to make a big career, was first acted in "The Granary of the World" and "Qianlong Dynasty" by Wu Ziniu.
Later, he incarnated as "Lan Yutang" in the martial arts drama "Golden Sword and Carving".
and Sun Li, Qian Yongfu, Xie Na, and Han Tongsheng presented "A Pair of Embroidered Shoes".
collaborated with Jiang Wu and Zhu Yuanyuan in "Tracking", and cooperated with Wang Qian in "Serious Case Six Groups Part II".
In 2004, the movie "Zeng Kelin Out of the Customs" won the Best TV Film Award at the 24th Golden Rooster Awards.
As one of the leading actors, Lian Yi became famous.
was pulled by director Wang Yikai to star in "Fire King Kong"; The incarnation of "Zhang Haiyang" and Liu Ye's "Zhong Yuemin" in "Blood Romance" staged a brotherhood.
In the year when his career was booming, Lian Yiming met his first wife Chen Jiayan.
03 A fire made a decision
Chen Jiayan was born in 1981 and is 9 years younger than Lian Yiming.
She is a flower in Hailar City, Inner Mongolia, and has a rich life, an open mind and a beautiful appearance since she was a child.
At the age of 16, he was admitted to the Performance Department of ** Drama Academy.
After starring in her first film and television drama "Haikou Diary" in 1998, the little girl's star journey was particularly bright.
is luckier than Lian Yiming and more powerful than Lian Yiming, from "West Street Girl" directed by Zhang Jinzhan to "Marrying the Right Man in the Wrong Sedan Chair".
If some young people remember her role as "Fang Xiaoxiao".
Maybe the older ones remember her role as "Qi Miao" in "My Brothers and Sisters".
In 2002, she performed "Inextricable Threads" with Jiang Shan and Zhong Hanliang, and in the second year, she played the heroine and collaborated with Huang Xiaoming in "Sister Huani".
If you want to talk about the intersection with Lian Yiming, you also have to mention a friend of Chen Jiayan, Xu Shuang.
In 2002, Xu Shuang collaborated with Lian Yiming on "Tracking", and she shared the stills as soon as they were decided.
That was the first time Chen Jiayan knew about Lian Yiming, just with a **, she feltA man who looks tough and strong should be relied on
Who knew that it was so coincidental that in 2004, Lian Yiming directed a work alone for the first time.
In the crew of "Wildfire Spring Breeze Fighting Ancient City", Chen Jiayan really had contact with Lian Yiming.
And the sudden fire on the set made the brave Chen Jiayan completely enter Lian Yiming's heart.
The fire started suddenly, and it quickly swept through the room where the costumes and props were placed.
None of the people present dared to move, only Lian Yiming, who had pressed his net worth, desperately rushed to the fire.
I know that such an act is very undesirable, and I also know that the situation inside is very critical.
Seeing that Lian Yiming didn't come out, and didn't wait anxiously any longer, Chen Jiayan put on a coat and rushed into the fire.
Struggling to find it in the heat, his wide-eyed eyes were filled with smoke and tears.
I finally found someone and dragged it out with all my might.
When Lian Yiming woke up again, everyone said."It was Chen Jiayan who saved your life
Special events quickly give rise to special feelings.
seems to have entrusted each other with their lives, and the relationship between Lian Yiming and Chen Jiayan went from gratitude to friendship to love.
They met in July, fell in love in August, bought a house after meeting their parents in October, and registered their marriage in December.
got married after half a year of contact, and the 32-year-old Lian Yi married the 23-year-old Chen Jiayan home, and the two soon had a daughter to paint after marriage.
Slow down your career a little and let your husband's career go first.
Chen Jiayan has successively cooperated with Yang Tongshu, Gao Shuguang, Hou Yong, Liu Zhibing and others.
appeared in dramas such as "Don't Forget to Love Yourself", "Anti-Drug Police", "The Man in the Wall" and so on.
And Lian Yiming is much busier.
From "Several Degrees of Chrysanthemum Fragrance", "Who Testifies for You", "Mother is a River" to "Heroes Everywhere", "Elephants" and "Scorching Sun".
The word "tough guy" seems to have become synonymous with Lian Yiming.
"Lianpai Heroes" used the blood and iron man on the screen to create his own influential young actor and director's name.
Men work hard outside, and wives do not give up their careers, but also do their best to take care of family and children.
At the wedding, Lian Yiming swore that he would be good to Chen Jiayan, and he did it after marriage.
He never shirks doing housework at home, and when his wife comes back from filming, as long as he is at home, no matter how late it is, he will pick it up as soon as possible.
Every once in a while, there will be small gifts and surprises, and the daughter's painting will not be all the wife's business.
Married life is sweet and warm, as if everything is going in a good direction.
But in 2009, the good start ushered in the bad end.
04 His feelings always come warmly
In 2008, Chen Jiayan finished performing "The Age We Live In", and was widely praised for setting up the image of a resolute woman "Ye Yufen".
After that, she pushed the show and made an appointment to stay at home to accompany her daughter who was going to kindergarten.
At that time, Lian Yiming was preparing to direct and star in the TV series "Zhongtian Hanging Sword".
Chen Jiayan has done her time management to the extreme, teaching her daughter enlightenment homework, taking care of her husband's daily life and diet, and trying to help him at work.
As soon as this drama ends, it will enter the next drama, a "The Process of History", which allows Lian Yiming and Yang Ruoxi to meet.
Speaking of which, Yang Ruoxi is also a character, and at the age of 19, he collaborated with Zhang Guoli and Liu Wei in "The God of Wealth".
She held hands with the well-known actor Liu Wei, who was 23 years older than her, in the theater.
At that time, Liu Wei was very afraid of feelings because of He Qing's splitting legs. I can't stand the young girl's clever smile and beautiful eyes.
The two were not afraid of rumors and lived together for 8 years against their parents.
In 2007, 50-year-old Liu Wei desperately longed for a stable family.
After being rejected after repeatedly proposing marriage, he sadly left a letter and left for the United States.
I don't know if it's because I lost it, and I regret it.
Yang Ruoxi lost weight after she couldn't find Liu Wei, and she cried in front of **, hoping that her boyfriend could give her a chance to explain and not walk away.
But there was no response, Liu Wei not only unilaterally announced his breakup.
also married an excellent makeup artist in the United States, and became a father the next year, fulfilling the dream of his wife and children to be on the kang.
A few months before entering the crew of "The Process of History", the news of Liu Wei's marriage and addition of children had just spread to China.
may be when he is sad, a tough guy like Lian Yiming, who seems to be very responsible, can give Yang Ruoxi a great sense of security.
So in and out of the play, she and Lian Yiming have the most words.
I have to say that Yang Ruoxi is indeed a beauty, with a small melon seed face, a slender figure, big watery eyes, and sweet dimples that can intoxicate when she laughs.
Such a woman cries at you, laughs at you, shows weakness to you, asks you to eat, play and watch movies.
didn't wait for the filming to end, Lian Yiming forgot about his wife and daughter at home, and fell into Yang Ruoxi's warmth.
When he came home from the crew, he didn't give Chen Jiayan time to react, and he opened his mouth to divorce.
The sudden news shocked his wife, and then it was all incredulous.
Although I feel that my husband has been a little cold recently, why did he suddenly say that he wanted a divorce?
I don't want to think about it" and "I don't like it" can't convince Chen Jiayan.
Subsequently, the relationship between Lian Yiming and Yang Ruoxi leaked clues.
There are also tears that keep flowing from their eyes, angry and aggrieved, feeling worthless and wanting to keep it.
Chen Jiayan said that as long as Lian Yiming and the outside are cut off, everything is possible, and the child also needs a complete home.
But this side regresses and that side doesn't appreciate it at all.
The former lover is in love again, and he must give his new love a name no matter what.
He said he could do without a house, a car, most of his savings, and a daughter, and he could leave the house.
The person in front of me seems to have changed in the passage of time, and the husband who once said "I wish to have one heart" has such an abominable face.
If you can't keep it, it's better to raise your hand and let him go, with her young daughter strong, Chen Jiayan ended her marriage of only 5 years.
Her daughter's painting has become Chen Jiayan's spiritual support, and she did not work in 2009.
Returning to his hometown to live with his parents for a while, watching his children frolic freely in the vast world where they were children.
The parents said "we will always be with you" with their actions, and the daughter directly expressed "Mom, I love you" with words with a smile.
The kindness of the people around her made Chen Jiayan completely let go of the past and look to the future.
05 You must eat what you have sown
From "Ice is Sleeping Water", "Warm Homes" and "Perfect Bride".
to Zhang Tianai and Sheng Yilun to star in the popular online drama "The Promotion of the Crown Princess".
In 2016, Chen Jiayan also began to host the talk show "Grandma Said".
Sharp rhetoric, point-to-point point of view output and point-to-point summary.
Some people in the industry described Chen Jiayan: "Just one glance, you will think she is a beautiful woman." If you talk to her, she immediately becomes different. Because a person's speech and demeanor can reflect the upbringing and character is the best business card
will have a good time across the border, hosting the show and acting on TV at the same time.
Later, Chen invested in a company, and his career and life were delicious.
Along the way, she has grown up with her daughter, and she has also gained a lot of joy and happiness moments.
On the other hand, Lian Yiming, who insisted on divorce back then, does not seem to have developed as he wished.
After the divorce, Lian Yiming and Yang Ruoxi lived together for a year, and then got married in a low-key manner in 2011.
It was only at this time that netizens found out the inside story of Chen Jiayan's departure.
For a time, "negative men" and "playing women" were crowned on the heads of newlyweds.
's career was affected, so Yang Ruoxi retired from her family and put Lian Yiming in the first place to take care of her.
And Lian Yiming finished filming "International Rescue" this year, and after directing and acting in "Brother Hero", the drama contract also decreased rapidly.
When no one was looking for filming, he filmed it himself.
In 2012, he established a studio and successively launched works such as "Snow Wolf Valley" and "Five Lakes and Four Seas".
In 2013, he took his wife Yang Ruoxi to shoot "Wolf Smoke" together, but the audience didn't buy it.
In 2014, Yang Ruoxi gave birth to her son Lian Shangjia, and since then, neither husband nor wife has appeared in more well-known works or roles.
In 2017, a "Three Lives, Three Worlds, Ten Miles of Peach Blossoms" made Yang Mi, Zhao Youting, Gao Weiguang, Di Lieba and others popular on the screen.
And attentive netizens found Lian Yiming in it, he played an important role "Qingcang" throughout the whole play.
There are few important roles in the role, and "Qingcang" has always lived in the mouth of Donghuang Zhong and the protagonist.
In addition, the appearance of the Great Demon King also made people unable to see the shadow of Lian Yiming's past at all, so he was not paid much attention.
In today's entertainment industry, "tough guy" actors emerge in an endless stream, and young generations such as Huang Jingyu occupy the market.
Lian Yiming almost disappeared, even if it is a self-directed and self-acted drama such as "Chang'an under Heaven", he will no longer play the leading role, but pick up the side role in the play to make an appearance.
In 2020, he starred in "Crossing the Yalu River", and in 2022, he was nicknamed the "soy sauce drama bone" in "Flying Fox Gaiden".
Compared with Chen Jiayan, who is more and more temperamental, the more he laughs.
Most of the ** people who were photographed by Lian Yiming frownedPeople are fat, their hair is gray, and their careers are muddy
Maybe Lian Yiming didn't expect this to be the result, maybe love is a desperate ......