It's time to say goodbye to the old and welcome the new year, there have been some changes in the past year, make a record and share your thoughts:
It is the first year that the epidemic has been fully reopened after the epidemic, and after 3 years of the epidemic, some things have not changed, and some have changed forever. The streets and roads of the city are still those streets, the shopping mall buildings are still those shopping mall buildings, the lakes and mountains are still those lakes and mountains, but the people are not necessarily those people. Some people are gone, and the health of those who are there is generally not as good as before, and people's faith is not as high as before.
The year is still a depressed scene for the real estate industry, there is a new real estate near the community, the developer takes the land after the construction day and night, just want to be the first to fund early, but there is still no one to care, in desperation, the developer has to speed up the construction faster, and the project is completed one by one. In the past few years, the real estate industry has been fragrant, and I have seen how many people have made a fortune by relying on real estate and completed the class jump. I remember when I was in college, there was a teacher who occasionally talked to students about his real worth, and I had dozens of houses at every turn. In the past, many people stretched their financial leverage to the limit to allocate more properties, but now, many people are more willing to repay their loans in advance, and no one seems to know what the future will look like.
I think more about the workplace and have the courage to make some changes, although the timing of change may not be the best time, but I think it is the best time in the future. If you are destined to change, then change early while you are young.
4. I remember when I was 30 years old, I started to think about the meaning of some things. The last time I had similar thoughts was back when I was about 20 years old, when I was in college and I was thinking about what the value of life is and how one is going to spend it. To be honest, I was quite confused when I was 20 years old, although I was in a very good 985 school, the teachers were also very good teachers, and my classmates were all smart and hard-working students from various provinces. At that time, I was obviously a little confused, and I was still trying to find a reason for the existence of my behavior. And at the age of 30, I began to think systematically about my career, and after working hard for some years to make myself stronger, what does the future hold? What is something really valuable? And how to do more meaningful accumulation?
5. When people are young, they actually have a lot of edges and corners, or reverse scales, and they will think that this is also important, and that is also important. Some things do not have much impact on the future after they occur, and some things have a profound impact on the future, or even more and more. Some people will walk with them for a long, long time. Some people are just passers-by on a journey.
I am 33 years old, and I am more able to reconcile with myself than I was a few years ago when I only had questions and no answers. There is a joke that parents' expectations for their children are a curve that constantly regresses to the mean, when the child is very young, there will be high expectations, as the child grows up and becomes more and more mediocre, the parents' expectations will be lower and lower, and finally reduced to just be an ordinary person, yes, just be an ordinary person. I think a person himself is also such a process, in the process of connecting with the world, he gradually discovers that he is just an ordinary person, and many things don't have to be so entangled.
7. There is a saying that people often overestimate the changes that may be brought about in the short term, but often underestimate the changes that may be brought about in the long term. The best time to plant a tree is 10 years ago, followed by now, if you want to have a forest, then you better start planting a tree now, fertilize it, water it, don't water it a lot at once, just water a little at a time, but keep going, keep going. In the beginning, you only have a small sapling, slowly you have a small tree, then two, three. One day, when you have become accustomed to the usual basic actions of watering and loosening the soil, and you no longer pay special attention to the number of trees, the forest may have grown.
8. In the past 15 to 20 years, it has been a time of rapid development of the Internet industry, and many ordinary people without any background have gained a good income because of joining the Internet industry, and have run from small towns and rural areas to big cities, getting married and settling down. In 2023, it is a year when the Internet takes off its magical halo and returns to its true value, many companies have laid off employees, and as far as the eye can see, there is no longer a thriving scene in the past, and the capital is as quiet as a cicada.
One of the great gains of the year is actually to realize that you are ordinary and ordinary, some things are not hard work will be effective, choose to reconcile with yourself, and enjoy the moment, this may be life.
There are also regrettable things in the year, when the perspective of light is pulled away, and then look at it, I also feel that life is a gift, cherish the present, cherish the time when you are still young, do something you want to do, and explore a different life.
I have also done a lot of different things, I have been to distant places, and I have also experienced things that I have not experienced in my past life, to wrestle, to let myself learn and grow, I have found that with the washing of time, I can accept many things that I did not accept in the past. In the past, the line between black and white, like and dislike, was very clear. Now, it's not so clear-cut, and it's indispensable.
12. Leave a paragraph for 2024, in 2024, I hope I can have more patience and better thinking. The present is the oldest version of you in the past, and the youngest version of you in the future. Life is an escalating experience, so add some attributes and equipment to yourself. If you miss the past very much, then, I want to say to you, don't love in the past, indulge in it!
I am Li Mingbright, a product expert from a large factory, with 12 years of product + entrepreneurial experience, sharing products, business cognition and experience, welcome to follow.