watched another episode of "Mao Xuewang" guest Hu Xianxu, said that Qin Lan is a person who can provide emotional value, and also mentioned the harmonious atmosphere of "Flowers and Youth Silk Road Season", I have to admit that the overall atmosphere of this episode of "Flowers and Youth Silk Road Season" is very **, but the program opened with apprehension has a different harvest, there is a sense of déjà vu that everyone is really good friends traveling together, although the itinerary is compact and the funds are not abundant, but they are also seeking a better direction step by step. What matters is what people say.
In fact, the important maintenance of relationships between people is probably what to say. That kind of yin and yang weirdness with emotions is sometimes counted, because all expressions are better than holding back and not talking, and honesty is relatively better than being behind it. Express your own emotions, express what you want to say even in scattered sentences as completely as possible, and say what you want and what you want to understand, instead of relying entirely on your own self-pity and self-licking wounds.
Hu Xianxu said that when he was a child, his father took him to film, but later the relationship between father and son gradually became estranged, and he said that he had seriously talked to his parents about his feelings, and gradually understood and eased the relationship. Whether it is a relative, a friend, or a lover, being able to consider each other is a beautiful quality, and it is not entirely possible to require the other party to be able to understand oneself, or to have the precondition of being honest about one's needs, so that it is not easy for the relationship between the two parties to get out of the difference, and no one can fully understand the other.
Some just try to listen as much as possible and constantly revise it, and then the relationship between the two sides can progress and change qualitatively. There is no relationship that does not need to be run-in, relationships are complex topics, and everyone has been trying to solve them all their lives, and the warmth and affection of each other are tormented in the continuous encounter and separation. It's just that in the end, they are looking for a kind of warmth that can flow for a long time, a kind of companionship that can be accompanied by each other, and a tacit understanding that they will not be embarrassed to sit without saying a word. I hope that everyone can get their wish and never get tired of meeting their spring, summer, autumn and winter with them for a long time.