How can a person save himself when he is at a low point and loses hope in life?

How can a person save himself when he is at a low point and loses hope in life?

There have been so many worries lately, that I couldn't stay up for a while, and I was in a state of anxiety almost all day long. Even during the Chinese New Year, I didn't feel jubilant, and I couldn't help but secretly wipe my tears in the middle of the night.

Tonight, I broke down again.

For a long time, I obviously felt that I had worked hard enough, but behind every effort and effort, there was either no opportunity or lost opportunity, and in the end my life was a mess. Depressed and irritable, I went out with my two babies.

Watching other people's parents go to play with their children, take pictures of friends to share, and have a good time, I actually feel very guilty in my heart, especially the unfairness to the big baby.

Because he was poor, he wanted to buy an eight-yuan strawberry rock candy gourd, wanted to buy a kite to play, and wanted to go to an amusement park, I would hesitate for a long time.

I'm a stay-at-home mom and a failure. There is no job, no skills, and there is basically no progress in developing various side hustles.

And the second baby is only sixteen months old, which is the most lively and naughty time, it is difficult to bring, and he wants to pester me.

When a woman with two babies has neither the love of her in-laws, nor the care and understanding of her husband, she works part-time at home as a designer, and chooses to swallow her anger every day when she suffers from the difficulties of customers, just for that humble salary to earn living expenses. Is this kind of married life really what I want?

Perhaps, as my mother said, since I was a child, all the blessed things have not been my turn, and the bad things have picked me again and again, and I can only blame my bad life.

I never believed in fate, and I thought nothing could stump me. But this time, I was really tired.

Just as I was thinking about it and starting to get depressed, the big baby sitting in the back seat of the bicycle suddenly said something to me, which almost made me cry instantly. He said: "When my mother made money and I studied hard, my mother would take me to the amusement park. When the second baby sitting in front heard this, she also shouted two words of "mother" ......

Later, when I went back, I finally bought an eight-yuan strawberry rock sugar gourd for the big baby to eat. I also bought a box of fairy sticks for five yuan and accompanied the two babies to set off fireworks.

The famous literary writer Rabindranath Tagore once wrote:

"Only by going through hellish ordeal can we develop the power to create heaven; Only a bleeding finger can pop out the sound of the world. ”

But in fact, we ignore the most important point - although we cannot avoid all kinds of encounters and setbacks in life, our fate is always in our own hands!

Here, I would like to share 25 inspirational and positive energy quotes, especially the last paragraph, dedicated to you who are confused, in a low period, and don't want to work hard, I hope these quotes can bring you strength!

1.No matter what label you are labeled upon, only you can define yourself.

2.To be truly strong is not to never fail, but to get up again and move forward after failing continuously.

3.Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what the next piece will taste like, but you can decide how to taste it.

4.Your worth is not defined by others, but proven by yourself through constant effort.

5.There is no end in life, only a corner, a corner, you will find a wider world.

6.Don't be afraid to fail because failure is a stepping stone to success and it will bring you closer to success.

7.When you make it through the storm, you are no longer who you are.

8.If life kicks you so much, don't forget to give it two slaps, it's better to resist than to shed tears.

9.If you don't set limits for yourself, there are no barriers in life that limit your performance.

10.You may be worthless in front of one person and priceless in front of another, so don't deny yourself.

11.If your life is already at a low point, go boldly, because whatever you do is up.

12.My confusion and timidity have always been there, but I told myself that even if it is an abyss, if I go down, it will be a long future.

13.In this world, there is never no way out. Those who work hard will overcome obstacles and scars and walk through it with difficulty.

14.After a person has undergone different degrees of exercise, he or she will obtain different degrees of cultivation. It's like spices, the more crushed they are, the finer they are ground, and the stronger their fragrance becomes.

15.Others can only show you the way, but can't help you walk, and you still need to walk your own life path.

16.It's not that there's no water in the well, it's that you're not digging deep enough; It's not that success comes slowly, it's that you don't work hard enough.

17.The best thing about working hard is that you can choose the life you want, rather than being forced to go with the flow.

18.There is no one in this world who is not injured, no matter when, you have to believe that the only one who is truly ** your own is yourself. Don't complain, try to be patient; Don't be afraid of loneliness, work hard to precipitate.

19.If you don't work hard to change, no one can grow up for you, and the pursuit of comfort when you are young and wasting time in vain is the greatest cruelty to yourself. The world is small, please run together with your dreams; The world is a big one, so please try to grow with perseverance.

20.There are no shortcuts in life, and the only way out is to fight against difficulties. If the problem is not solved, don't give up.

21.You don't have to frown no matter how painful the road is, you have to know that no matter how difficult it is, you choose it yourself, and you are not qualified to cry out for pain.

22.Some people are running, some people are sleeping, some people are grateful, some people are complaining, those who have goals can't sleep, people who don't have goals can't wake up, hard work is the attitude that life should have, and opening your eyes is a new beginning.

23.There is no wasted effort in the world, and there is no coincidental success, all unintentional willows are actually a matter of course, there is no road in vain in life, and there is no hardship in vain, every step taken out is the cornerstone and foreshadowing of the future, and it counts.

24.In everyone's life, there is the most difficult year, and when it is over, life will become beautiful and vast. The south wall has been hit, the story has been forgotten, and getting through it is light.

25.You don't have a degree, you're not very smart, you're from a poor background, you don't have any special skills, what are these things for? As long as you are willing to work hard, there will definitely be a path that belongs to you and can keep you going.