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There are too many things that are unfair at work or make girls feel wronged, and at this time, as friends or relatives, we need to take some high-emotional intelligence coaxing methods to help them relieve their emotions. This article will give you some effective advice.
First of all,Listening is a very important form of support. Give the girl enough space and time to talk freely about her feelings and experiences. Don't interrupt her, but let her vent her emotions. In the process of listening, let her feel your care and understanding through some simple responses, such as "um", "I understand", "you must have been very aggrieved at the time", etc.
Secondly, it is very important to give affirmation and encouragement. When girls tell their stories, give affirmation and encouragement in a timely mannerLet her know that her hard work and dedication are worthwhile. You can say things like, "You've done a great job," "You've done your best," "I'm sure you'll be able to overcome this," etc., to make her feel supported and encouraged.
Third, provide substantial assistance. When a girl is wronged, we can provide some substantive help, such as helping her analyze the problem, providing some suggestions or resources to solve the problem. If needed, you can also accompany her to face and solve problems together. These substantial help can make the girl feel supported and cared for.
Fourth, pay attention to the tone and wording when comforting girls. While comforting the schoolgirls,Be gentle, well-worded, and don't use overly direct or harsh language that may make her feel more uncomfortable. At the same time, in the process of coaxing, avoid overemphasizing her weaknesses and shortcomings, but focus more on her strengths and strengths. On the premise of respecting facts and moral etiquette, let the other party understand that you are not educating her, but helping her!
Finally, give the girl enough space and time to calm down. While giving the girl enough love and support, it is also necessary to respect her personal space and time. Don't ask her about her feelings and condition too often, but give her enough freedom to adjust her emotions on her own. When she needs to talk, respond and support her in a timely manner.