Doing projects is more about facing Party A's "docking person", and what is with you here is not a tough attitude that makes Party B uncomfortable. It is the kind of Party A's counterpart whose purpose is inconsistent and cannot communicate at all.
First of all, there is no sense of work boundaries. Run to Party B to point fingers, so that Party B cannot work normally. It seems that when driving a taxi, the driver (Party B) must listen to his command when he steps on the brakes and merges the line, and asks him for instructions and asks him to "make decisions". This kind of docking person is usually also a part-time worker, who wants to experience the feeling of being a "master", and at the same time, he is also performing for the boss, so that the boss thinks he "understands" very well.
This has nothing to do with whether it is tough or not, and it is useless for Party B to explain it to him. He doesn't want to do things at all, he just wants to get pleasure by making trouble for Party B, and also makes the company think that he has leadership potential and can handle Party B.
When encountering such a docking person, the most direct way is to contact the other party's superior and ask for a replacement, otherwise it cannot be done.
Then there is the overstepping of the line and pretending to be an expert. It's like a debate about who is the doctor and who is the pharmacy.
Under normal circumstances, Party B is the doctor and Party A is the patient. However, Party A's contact person wanted to impersonate a doctor and prescribe to the patient. Asking the doctor (Party B) to prescribe medicine only according to his prescription without making any judgment is to challenge his "authority". Of course, if there is any accident, the responsibility will be counted on the doctor (Party B).
In this case, Party B does not know the real needs of Party A at all, and can only see the "prescription" issued by Party A to the contact. This requires a redefinition of the role, Party B does not work as a doctor, only a pharmacy, and prescribes drugs according to prescriptions.
But more often than not, this happens only in a part of the project, and in the whole project, it is impossible to adjust at all.
The author has personally experienced a similar situation: Party A gave 20 yuan and said to buy a pack of cigarettes. After getting the cigarette, he asked Party B to give him a car, on the grounds that Party A wanted to sit in the car and smoke, and if he didn't give him the car, the cigarette would not be able to smoke.
This is actually a scoundrel, but looking at Party A's serious appearance, it is still justified. I even think that the real needs of Party A are cars, but "Party A's docking person" doesn't know how to pretend to understand, thinking that Party B should give him a car if he buys a pack of cigarettes for 20 yuan.
In fact, when encountering the above situation, in addition to dodging, avoid being touched. Is there any better way?
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