Red envelopes are posted in the circle of friends, and divorce comes knocking on the door
On Valentine's Day, my husband sent me a red envelope, and I was pleasantly surprised and shared this joy in my circle of friends. However, what I didn't expect was that he filed for divorce.
My current husband and I are both restructured families, and we both had a failed marriage before. The same experience brought the two of our wounded people together, and I have a lot of expectations for this marriage and hope to spend the rest of my life with him.
After all, we are all not small anymore and can no longer bear too many twists and turns. My ex-husband and I have a daughter, and I have always had it with me. In those years, I had a very difficult time, and my friends around me advised me to find someone to marry while I was young.
But I was afraid of being hurt again, and I was afraid that my daughter would be hurt with me. It wasn't until I met my current husband that I felt like I had found happiness.
We met through introduction, he is eight years older than me, he is a stable man, running a small business, the economic strength is stronger than mine, the people around him think we are a good match, he helps me a lot, he is also very good to my daughter, my daughter likes him very much, after we have been dating for a while, he proposed to me and gave me a big diamond ring, I was so excited that I shed tears of happiness.
After that, we got the certificate, held a wedding banquet in the hotel, and began to look forward to our happy life in the future. My current husband also has a son, he lives in the school and comes home once a month, he respects me very much, and after I got married, I became a stay-at-home wife and took my daughter over, and I finally experienced the feeling of home.
My husband is very busy every day, and he seems to be wary of me, especially when it comes to money, and I have to negotiate with him when I need money, which makes me feel uncomfortable. I didn't find this before marriage, he has a strong machismo, everything must be done according to his will, and he is completely like two people before marriage.
We have a son, but he is still wary of me, married for so long, I don't know how much money he earns every month, he is now more and more picky, he will scold me when I buy clothes, saying that I spend money indiscriminately, in fact, I buy cheap clothes on sale, skin care products are also used very economically, I am very frugal in life, and I really pay for this family.
I have been married for many years, and I always remember his birthday, and I cook a bowl of longevity noodles for him every year. However, he never celebrated my birthday, which made me feel a little aggrieved.
Yesterday was Valentine's Day for young people, and the circle of friends was full of messages to show affection and send red envelopes, which made me envious. But what I never dreamed of was that he sent me a red envelope for the first time, this was the first time he sent me a red envelope, I was very surprised, I quickly clicked on it, and found that it was 520 yuan!
I was so excited that I decided I wanted to remember this wonderful moment. So, I also learned from others to post screenshots in the circle of friends, with a line of words: "The iron rooster has finally opened up, I want to remember this unforgettable moment!" ”
Finally, I added a funny emoji to show my happiness.
My husband questioned my circle of friends and said that he was an iron rooster, saying that I was scheming and wanted to get his property. I cried aggrievedly, and after a big fight, he proposed a divorce, and the son belonged to him, and I couldn't afford to raise it.
I regret it and don't want to get a divorce for fear that my son will be hurt. Now we are still in the Cold War, and the future is very confused, so we can only take one step at a time.